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Feb 7, 2022 19:00
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Takes his time with kissing and affection
Communicates with me during intimacy
Looks me in the eyes, smiles, and caresses me
Calls me by my name often
Holds my hand during intimacy
Shows care and tenderness afterward
These are the moments during intimacy when I feel his love for me.
They’re the things that make me love him even more.
Do men I meet through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) ever make you feel even more butterflies than this?
If so, please tell me!
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茉莉花
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Other
I thought you were talking about my papa (a male supporter).
Afterwards, I usually end up completely exhausted and fall asleep, while my papa watches me sleeping in his arms. When I suddenly wake up, our eyes meet—and he’s smiling.
Feeling happy, I fall back asleep.
Marika
And then, after waking up again, we sometimes go for another round.
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
What makes a papa’s heart flutter
**No. 1**
When he says, “Thanks for everything today,” and hands over the allowance in a little envelope.
**No. 2**
When he takes you out for an amazing, atmospheric meal somewhere you normally wouldn’t get to go.
LOL
Since she’s not his girlfriend, he tailors the adult relationship to the preferences of his monthly arrangement partner, so he probably can’t do everything the questioner mentioned.
He gently strokes her head and caresses her tenderly.
Kissing on the lips depends on whether she likes it. He gently kisses her back and other areas.
He’ll bring her to climax with gentle oral or clitoral caresses.
He says she’s cute and beautiful, but doesn’t use her name.
Afterward, he checks on her, gives her a towel, and covers her with the blanket.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It depends on the chemistry.
If you have great chemistry, it can surpass that—but the question is whether you’ll ever meet someone you truly click with...
There is one decisive difference, though: a relationship with a lover tends to be highly fulfilling regardless of how good the chemistry is (even when the chemistry isn’t that great...).
That’s something a papa (a male supporter) can never provide.
That’s why a papa should go out of his way to make a woman happy in every way—not just through an adult relationship (intimate)—while also letting her know that he’s completely captivated by her and sees her as an irreplaceable source of joy and happiness. It’s important that she welcomes that, too.
Nothing works if it’s one-sided, and that’s especially true when it comes to chemistry between a man and a woman.
綾瀬なな
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Other
Maybe it was when he helped you through a difficult time.
あや
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Other
There are so many little things that make it clear he really loves me and finds me sexy, you know?
It may seem minor, but I melt when my papa (a male supporter) kisses my back so affectionately. I also love it when he strokes my hair. I’m sure there are plenty of other things, but I usually forget because my memory is pretty much gone after we’re intimate.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t know whether it tops that, but there have been several times when I solved a woman I was seeing’s problem and she thanked me as if she were about to bow all the way to the ground.
After that, she’d treat me incredibly kindly, so I think I probably made her heart flutter a little.
フラグメーカー
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Maybe, but their body may be covered in more spots, and their face might look like an old man—or even a grandfather. They could also have a gut or be balding. Even with someone like that, can you still press the button that makes your heart flutter?
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I normally do everything you’ve listed, but I’m an 82-year-old short, fat, bald, ugly guy, so if I did the same thing as your boyfriend, she’d be disgusted to the point of wanting to die. (;∀;)
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
It’s not really a matter of surpassing it.
It seems like you could have a similar experience through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) as well.
Have you, the person asking the question, not had an experience like that yet?