Tips Jan 27, 2022 15:42

The woman I’ve been close with for three years is turning 30. She sees it as an important milestone, so I feel it should be more special than an ordinary birthday.

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What would be a good way to celebrate her? I focus on seeing just one person, and I’m incredibly grateful that she has stayed by my side for so long and that we’ve grown this close. I want to express these feelings in a tangible way. I’ve arranged a suite, but I feel that alone won’t be enough. I’d appreciate your suggestions.
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It’s you, not the woman, who needs the suite. Why not have a nicer meal than usual, or buy her a condo instead? I don’t think turning that age makes you special in any way. What exactly are you dreaming about?
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茉莉花
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There’s been a lot of criticism of the suite room, but personally, I don’t think it really matters either way. I wouldn’t be happy with just going to a restaurant. Wouldn’t it be better to ask her what she likes and give her that as a gift—or simply give her cash? Marika
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I’m Aya, a female member. If it’s such an important occasion, the best thing to do is ask her directly. Ask her specifically what kind of date she’d like.
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カズ
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I’m Kazu, a male member. If you’ve been seeing her for three years, you should know what makes her happy.
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ジョー・ルビコン
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I think putting some thought into it yourself is also a way of showing gratitude to the other person. I don’t mean to butt in too much, but perhaps you should try to come up with a solution on your own. As for the suite, I agree with Mr. Makeo. It’s probably for your own satisfaction, not theirs. Cancel it and reconsider the venue.
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Cancel the suite. An adult date on such an important anniversary is out of the question. You need to switch it to a date at an upscale restaurant immediately. Cash is the safest bet for a gift. Give her slightly more than she expects.
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