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Jan 21, 2022 11:57
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I think it comes down to whether you can help others and make their happiness and excitement your own.
In other words, you don't have enough money to spend on other people's happiness.
Roughly where would you draw that line in terms of assets?
Let's both keep doing our best.
3 answers
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Personally, yes, I want to satisfy my need for validation—not so much as Fuu herself, but as a papa (a male supporter).
I was never popular with women, so now I’m able to enjoy both the money and being a papa through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). It makes me glad I was born a man.
I would think a PJ would be happy just to receive her allowance, but…
I can’t agree with you, but I do hope you’ll put into practice the beautiful act you have in mind.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
It’s more curiosity than a need for validation.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
In my case, it’s to fulfill my need for self-actualization.
I don’t need validation.
In fact, being criticized makes me happy because I don’t need it.
I want you to completely reject my views and principles about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—and even my very existence.
Wait… does wanting to be completely rejected mean I actually have a need for validation after all? m(_ _;)m