Tips Jan 17, 2022 09:18

This isn’t limited to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but when someone’s body odor is a terrible match for me, I feel like we’re incompatible on a genetic level. It’s like my body rejects them before I can even think about putting up with it.

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But when you do papa-katsu for the money, you can’t exactly go on about body odor or genetic compatibility, so I have to put up with it. But I still can’t seem to get used to it. Maybe it’s because with older men, body odor comes with that extra bit of age-related odor too? I’d love to meet someone who doesn’t bother me in terms of body odor and is compatible with me in every way… Do you think I’ll meet someone if I keep meeting more people?
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I think you’ll meet someone if you keep putting yourself out there. The other day, I got cold and borrowed a scarf from my papa, but I forgot to return it before I left, so I still have it. I have one of my own at home, but his smells so nice that I’ve been using his instead. Is that creepy? Marika
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I’m Fuu, a column writer. I feel like if you meet enough people, you’re bound to find someone. Humans are living creatures, after all, so it’s impossible to have no scent at all. But I think there are smells you can tolerate, smells you don’t mind, and smells you actually like. Like pheromones, maybe(笑) There’s no scientific evidence—just rumor-level speculation—but since having genetically distant partners is said to result in healthier babies, could women somehow distinguish how genetically distant someone is from them by smell? Could a scent seem appealing even if it smells bad? Maybe firefighters and stuntmen are popular because they have dangerous jobs, so their bodies release lots of pheromones urging them to leave descendants while they’re still alive—and women respond to that? At the very least, I hope you can meet a papa (a male supporter) whose natural scent is at least tolerable.
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Anyone who seriously works out will know this, but the smell of fat burning is genuinely awful. Overweight papas are burning fat just by breathing, so they smell almost 100% of the time even when they’re doing nothing. Add middle-aged body odor, and you’ve got poop-flavored poop, right? In other words: poop. And it’s not just body odor—how can a grown man not go to a bad-breath clinic? Periodontal disease and cavities seriously stink... And naturally, these wonderfully considerate, charming papas always offer an allowance of five or less... Amen... “What about you?” you ask? Of course I’m so incredibly smelly that I have to compromise big-time on how high the allowance is, and they reluctantly date me anyway. m(_ _;)m
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well. > Will I eventually meet someone if I just keep meeting people? This comes down to probability, so I think the more men you meet, the greater your chances of finding someone you’re compatible with. That said, if you’re still having a hard time getting used to it, it may simply not be for you. In that case, I think you should quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Looking at it another way, once you meet one really great man, you may find that you’re able to meet other, less impressive men without it bothering you as much. I think that can happen too.
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