Aren’t guys who wear designer brands from head to toe obviously often vain and stingy?
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Those are usually the same guys who brag about their flashy lifestyles, yet complain that other girls only got an allowance of 30,000–40,000 yen or whatever, and only take you to cheap places. They barely spend any money on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) at all.
Men who buy luxury cars, wear high-end brands, and go out for expensive sushi are often stingy with women. Of course, they don’t treat their male juniors either.
Men like that will inevitably see their businesses decline too, so cut them loose as soon as possible.
Being poor is like an infectious disease with an extremely high reproduction rate. Stay around them and the poverty curse will rub off on you.
You can see it if you look through the answers in this anonymous question box from the past three years or so: the stingier the respondent, the more they lecture other people.
People who nitpick and twist logic to lecture others usually offer low allowances.
In short, if they lack confidence in their own abilities as men, they probably criticize others and brainwash themselves into believing that they’re right and society is wrong.
A loser of a man.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
That kind of papa is probably the type who prefers spending money on obvious status symbols, like designer items that are recognizable at a glance.
Since interacting with women is something intangible, he may simply not want to spend money on it.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
It reminded me of a time at a girls’ bar when I didn’t find one of the girls attractive, so I didn’t request her and turned down her asking me to buy her a drink. She then shouted loudly enough for the whole place to hear:
“This customer never spends any money!”
Talk about being blunt（笑）
Saying it out loud isn’t going to make money appear. You have to think about what would make the other person want to spend money.
He can afford to buy high-end brands, so he probably has more money than a papa who can’t afford them.
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Good evening to the person asking specifically about XX.
He seems like the type who spends money where he feels it’s worth spending, so either he simply has no intention of spending money on women doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), or he has no intention of spending it on you. If your efforts don’t seem likely to lead to more, it might be better to move on to someone else—assuming you have other options, of course.
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