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Jan 13, 2022 17:59
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I’d appreciate it if you could share, as a reference for my own dating.
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茉莉花
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Other
With a monthly arrangement, I received around ¥300,000, including rent.
The rent was about ¥140,000 for a two-bedroom apartment in the suburbs, and the total varied between roughly ¥300,000 and ¥320,000 depending on the month because my allowance was based directly on my papa’s royalty income. Apparently, he had worked as a lyricist when he was younger.
This was nearly 20 years ago, and my papa has since passed away.
Marika
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Since I didn’t feel confident relying solely on my own experience, I asked several people with experience in this area. Excluding rent, I’d say 150,000–500,000 yen per month is typical. 1 million yen is rare.
This answer is fairly close to my experience, so please refer to it:
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/10962
In the past, I had a monthly arrangement of 500,000 yen (including rent, no adult relationship, and a credit card). It may be hard to believe, but there was no intimacy involved at the time.
I met that papa (a male supporter) soon after starting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but after I was injured during our first hotel visit, along with various other things, we stopped being intimate altogether. Looking back, I feel that perhaps he continued the relationship out of pride. It was emotionally taxing for both of us, and it ended after two years.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Everyone’s situation—and every woman—is different, so rather than asking about other people, I think it’s better to discuss it directly with the woman.
I do pay-per-meeting arrangements, so I usually give the women I see regularly about ¥100,000–¥400,000 a month. When I give a bonus, the total can sometimes reach around ¥700,000.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a losing player among the male members.
For monthly arrangements, some women get over 1,000,000 yen, while others get over 500,000 or 300,000 yen per month. The lowest pay-per-meeting allowance I give is 120,000 yen.
The allowance for women who make an effort for me keeps increasing, while the allowance for those who don’t stays the same. In my view, there’s no way women who work hard and women who don’t should receive the same allowance.
With women I see regularly under a monthly arrangement, the number of adult relationships (intimate) is far lower than you might imagine.
When I switch someone receiving 120,000 yen per meeting to a monthly arrangement, I set it at 300,000 yen per month and limit the adult relationships (intimate) to no more than twice a month.
I never make stingy offers that effectively lower the allowance, such as, “Since I’ll pay you upfront monthly, let’s make it three adult relationships (intimate) a month.”