Do men also go on dates with PJs they don’t even like?

I’m Fuu, a columnist. I meet girls I genuinely like. I don’t feel like spending money on someone I’m not interested in. I don’t believe in keeping someone on the back burner. If I part ways with my monthly partner, I’ll make offers until I find someone I really like. I usually meet someone about three times before deciding whether to make her a monthly partner. In broad terms, the kind of girl I’d want as a monthly partner is someone who: - Has a face and figure I’m attracted to - Is good in bed - Makes an effort in bed to please me - Is able to enjoy herself - Replies to LINE within a day - Shows appreciation and gratitude - Enjoys her food and says it’s delicious That’s about it.

I’m a male member, and honestly, I’m a loser at this. I tend to get close to women who voluntarily tell me about their private lives, while it’s harder for me to bond with women who keep everything secret. That said, this only applies to me. I would never pry into a woman’s privacy. I don’t ask her real name, where she lives, whether she has a boyfriend, or anything about her other papas. But if I keep doing that, we naturally won’t become close. That’s the difficult part: when a woman takes the risk of voluntarily opening up about her private life, I start to feel attached to her. She becomes one of my favorites. It’s not about physical compatibility. In fact, I recently got back together with a former favorite, and we have poor physical compatibility. But I know a lot about her because she voluntarily shares personal things with me. They simply sensed that I’m a safe papa who would never develop genuine romantic feelings for them. The women who didn’t become my favorites just failed to see that. I’ll say it again: it’s a gamble. In general, I don’t recommend sharing personal information.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I don’t date women I’m not interested in, but I sometimes go on dates with women I do like when I’m not really feeling up to it, simply to provide an allowance. I don’t keep anyone on the back burner.