Tips Jan 10, 2022 17:43

Do you ever feel guilty about giving such a small allowance?

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前澤(スタッフ)
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. Some men do feel bad that they can’t offer a larger allowance. However, there have been questions in the Q&A box asking, “Why would you go out of your way to tell a woman that?” after men said this out loud. So even if they feel that way, it seems better for men not to say it. You can probably tell how a man feels from his attitude when you’re together. That said, I don’t think they necessarily feel guilty. If both people have agreed to the arrangement, why should they feel guilty about it?
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I believe the allowance is fair. Like Kazu, if you’re dissatisfied with the allowance, I think you’d either decide not to pursue the relationship or simply stop coming to meet. Are you unhappy with the allowance…? If so, I think you should just end the relationship…
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. What feels like a lot or a little varies from person to person, doesn’t it? Since we discuss the allowance openly and have an adult relationship (intimate), I don’t feel guilty about it.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. If they think it’s too little, they probably won’t meet me, so that hasn’t happened.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member who feels like a loser. Of course, I do sometimes feel guilty. When it comes to my ace, I can’t help thinking, “She’s perfect inside and out, yet I’m only giving her 100,000 yen a month besides her rent…” Because of that guilt, we now have an adult relationship (intimate) only once a month.
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