Is it a bad idea to marry a man I met on Tinder? What do you think? I know he’s a bit of a player.
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I started using Tinder just to satisfy my needs, but he was so amazing in the way he took care of me when I had terrible period pain that I fell for him. We started out as friends with benefits, and it’s been three years. He’s practically dependent on me financially.
We’ve started talking about getting married.
My papa (a male supporter) says, “He’s someone you met through an app for casual hookups, so why not look for someone else?”
I’m about to turn 33, and he’s younger than me.
Does starting off in the worst possible way mean the relationship is bound to end badly too?
I can’t help loving my younger boyfriend because he’s so cute, but is being cute not enough?
I know a female business owner who lives happily with a kept man 20 years younger than her. He does the cleaning, cooking, laundry, and massages perfectly, and he’s kind and great at conversation.
I occasionally have dinner with the two of them, and that business owner looks like
a true winner.
—A losing man
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I’m in Seattle.
I’m fine with meeting anywhere.
I can’t see a man who can’t earn money as anything but a loser, but I suppose he must have other good qualities.
If you can earn enough to support him for the rest of his life, then sure. You shouldn’t abandon a pet once you’ve taken it in.
At the very least, make him do all the housework perfectly—a stay-at-home husband.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I think he’s at very high risk of being cheated on, but even men you meet in the usual way can cheat when they feel like it.
Since she’s doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) despite having a boyfriend, she’s probably pretty tolerant of her partner cheating too, lol.
If you’ve decided you’re willing to keep supporting the questioner even if he becomes a kept man, then I say do whatever you want.
He’s practically a pet.
Even if it doesn’t work out, all you’ll end up with is one divorce on your record.
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This is Nana Ayase☆
Don’t do it. Maybe only someone who’s had a failed marriage can understand this, but at the end of the day, having money makes you feel secure. Please be careful.
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