I’m a Black female member. (A man who made me a regular offer—not a letter-date offer—told me this even though I hadn’t asked.)

Maezawa from the President’s Office here. If you write that letter dates aren’t accepted, some men may get a bad impression, so I wouldn’t explicitly list them as a no-go. Instead, when you receive an offer for a letter date, you could decline based on the situation. If the man doesn’t have a profile, you might say that’s the reason. If he does have one, you could say something like: “I got the feeling we might not be a good match, so I’ll pass for now. If it were a date where we met in person, I’d be open to meeting first and deciding afterward.” I think it would be best to gradually decline letter dates in this way.

I’m a loser guy among the male members. ① I give the woman the money saved on the setup fee as an Amazon gift card right after the letter date begins. ② I tell her the allowance during the letter-date stage. These are my loser-guy rules for letter dates. I’ve been following them for about three months now. The women know that the setup fee is cut in half with a letter date, so they’re saving money. That’s why giving them the Amazon gift card in step ① is a must—I don’t want to be seen as stingy. As for ②, it’s what women want to know most, so I tell them right after giving them the gift card. Then I let them decide whether I’m worth meeting.

Basically, I don’t bother making an offer to anyone who has restrictions, such as refusing letter dates. Paper Airplane

I’m Taro, a male member. I was turned down for a letter date just recently. I’m basically satisfied with my current arrangements, so I don’t really have the motivation to make new offers. But as usual, after drinking, I posted a few pointless, self-indulgent answers on the question box. I still had a little energy left, so I opened another can of beer and browsed the members’ site. I came across a woman who seemed pretty appealing. Since she was Type B, I wouldn’t have to be intimate on the first meeting, and she only wanted transportation expenses as her allowance, so I figured I might as well meet her and pressed the offer button. Then I noticed that she accepted letter dates, so I thought, “In that case, let’s do a letter date.” The introduction fee is half as much, after all. I know letter dates can actually end up being more of a hassle, but being able to coordinate our schedules directly is an advantage—especially during the busy year-end and New Year period. In the end, she turned me down. I was reminded once again that the “big-bust village” is a tough mountain to climb, and one you have to approach prepared. I don’t think it’s at all unusual for someone to decline letter dates. Of the women I considered making offers to, I felt like about half were like that. Wanting to meet in person is simply one valid preference, so I didn’t get a bad impression at all. You probably don’t need to specifically say it’s because letter dates attract a lot of low-paying men. Unless, of course, you want to filter for men who aren’t stingy.

I’m Kazu, a male member. It seems like you read the Q&A section pretty regularly. I don’t know whether there are a lot of stingy men. If the reason a man is making an offer through Letter Date is simply that he wants to keep costs down, women may see him as cheap. You could just say something like, “I haven’t had a very good impression of the men who have made me offers through Letter Date so far.” You’d think most people could come up with wording like that on their own, though. Are you okay? https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/10422 Please search before asking a question. My impression is that she probably receives quite a few offers and seems fairly prideful. But most women with Black ratings are like that, so I don’t feel particularly strongly about it. Personally, though, I want to spend money at Universe Club, which has been good to me, so I don’t usually make offers through Letter Date.