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Dec 13, 2021 21:08
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I asked a question here before as well.
https:\/\/universe-club.jp\/help\/questions\/view\/10215
Although my previous post was a rambling mess because I was so anxious, I’m truly grateful to everyone who gave me such warm responses.
In particular, hearing from the female members that I shouldn’t put myself down really made me straighten up and regain my confidence. Thank you so much.
I also received wonderful advice and encouragement from the gentlemen, and I almost wish I could properly express my gratitude for everyone’s kindness beyond just writing this. Thank you all so much.
Taking everyone’s previous advice to heart, I clicked “You seem wonderful” on someone I genuinely wanted to meet, and luckily, he sent me an offer.
I’m going on a date with a man I’ll be meeting for the first time this week, and I’m still incredibly nervous.
Since I don’t know what he likes, I plan to make sure my hair, makeup, and clothes look reasonably polished, but…
Do men pay attention to lingerie?
I usually wear a skirt that comes down to about my knees along with a discreet garter belt, but would that be off-putting on a first date? I don’t really like pantyhose because they get hot and stuffy.
I’d appreciate hearing everyone’s opinions.
2 answers
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I do care about lingerie, but I’m not bold enough to ask a woman to show me her underwear right from the beginning, so it’s rare for her to show it on the first meeting. Most women take a shower and then come out wearing a bathrobe or wrapped in a bath towel.
I think pantyhose look silly, so I don’t like them either. I do like garter belts, though, and I’d be delighted if the woman I was dating wore one.
That said, I think garter belts can be a double-edged sword. Unless you specifically ask her to wear one, some men might feel that a woman wearing a garter belt after they’ve undressed her seems a bit too much like a sex worker.
Come to think of it, are you planning to put your stockings back on after taking a shower?
If the man happens to be the type who can’t wait until the shower, he’ll notice that you’re wearing thigh-high stockings with garters—but I think men who can’t wait are in the minority.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Everyone who answers here, myself included, is your fan and biggest supporter!
Garter belts are the best.
Is there any man who doesn’t like them?
I’d love to hear about your dates too. It’d be even better if you applied to become a column writer and shared all kinds of stories with us♡
—A defeated guy