If a profile says, “Weekdays until [a certain time], evenings negotiable,” would it be insensitive to ask for an evening dinner date from the very first meeting?

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I wonder whether “evenings negotiable” means she would preferably avoid them, but is taking the man’s circumstances and the likelihood of receiving offers into consideration. For the men here, when a woman phrases her availability like this, would you offer an evening time slot? For the women, what do you think someone might mean or feel when using wording like this?

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I’m Kazu, a male member. If a woman says she prefers evenings, I’ll mention that I’d like an evening meeting too, but I’ll still select “I can work around her schedule” when sending an offer. To me, being inconsiderate means ignoring that and making an offer for a time slot she has clearly marked as unavailable.

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