Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Nov 6, 2018 12:12
I took a woman in her 20s from a high-end dating club to Sushiro for our first date, and she looked visibly disgusted. After we finished with a natto roll, I casually mentioned, “I have around 300,000 stock options that the owner here gave me about 20 years ago, but it’d be a shame to leave them sitting there,” and her attitude completely changed. Should I avoid dating this woman?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
As you said, it’s pretty questionable.
Still, a woman with enough of a dominant streak to say, “Why Sushiro, though? Were you trying to show off?” might have been interesting too. There are all kinds of women, which is what makes this fun—but her reaction was so predictable that it must have been incredibly boring.
I’d say it’s best to leave her alone. lol
By the way, what was the woman’s going rate?
Since she seemed interested in money, I won…
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📅 Nov 6, 2018 11:08
Would a shopping arrangement be possible? Wouldn’t that amount to using a man as a wallet…? (Shopping only, with no intimate relationship.)
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
There are men who spend a lot of money at idol handshake events, so why not try looking for a male supporter who enjoys shopping with you?
To do that, it all starts with being chosen from among the site’s 8,000 female members and receiving an offer from a papa (a male supporter).
Even among idols—including underground idols—you’d probably be competing with only a select few, so I hope you’ll win him over.
I’m rooting for you.
P.S. There’s one …
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📅 Nov 6, 2018 11:06
I’ve heard that the going rate for an adult relationship (intimate) is 30,000–50,000 yen per meeting. Are there women who receive 50,000 yen per meeting for dinner only (no intimacy)? If so, what kind of profile or level of appeal would they typically have? (As specifically as possible, please.) Also, how common is that? (One in several hundred?)
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer ♪
> I’ve heard that the going rate for an adult relationship (intimate) is 30,000–50,000 yen per meeting.
Since this is a freely negotiated relationship, it varies from person to person. You’d need to be more specific—such as saying you mean an ordinary office worker—for that to mean anything.
> Are there women who receive 50,000 yen per meeting for dinner only (no intimacy)?
Maybe celebrities.
Also, when an arrangement has continued for a long…
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📅 Nov 6, 2018 01:40
Is it possible to have no adult relationship (intimacy) at all?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito♪, a column writer.
I assume you’re a woman asking this question, so I’ll answer on that basis.
“Absolutely, it’s possible.”
There are people like that, so please don’t worry.
If there’s one thing to be concerned about, it’s that Universe Club has around 8,000 female members alone. I’m sure you’re a wonderful person, but there are also many attractive women who have made up their minds and signed up. I hope you have something that makes you even more appealing.
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📅 Nov 6, 2018 01:37
I’m only interested in dinner and shopping—how much could I expect to earn? I don’t want any physical contact, such as holding hands.
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
I’m Joe, a columnist. I hope you don’t mind me sharing my own answer.
I believe there are quite a few male members who are happy with a dinner-only relationship. This is based on the experience of a woman I once introduced to someone.
- They met once a week for dinner only, and he gave her an allowance of ¥100,000 each time.
- In addition to the allowance, he bought her roughly ¥100,000 worth of things whenever they met.
- The arrangement lasted two years.
Even by a rough …
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📅 Nov 5, 2018 23:43
I used to be a female member. I’m in a monthly arrangement with a man I met through Universe Club (^^) What kind of gifts do men appreciate? He’s been so kind to me, so I’d like to give something back as well. Of course, I want to avoid anything that might make his family suspicious, and even when I ask what he wants, he won’t tell me. Do the female members here give their men Christmas presents? I’d love to hear about gifts you’ve been...
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
I’ve been enjoying your lovely post—it really warmed my heart.
This is just my guess, but I imagine the male members are financially well-off and can buy pretty much whatever they want. So basically, I don’t think their families would get suspicious no matter what they bought. (They’re probably the kind of people who can come up with any excuse.)
Personally, I like small gifts, such as a few homemade cookies that he brings occasionally on a da…
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📅 Nov 5, 2018 20:51
Is it strange that the more money I spend, the more I’m forced to face the fact that money is the only thing I have going for me, leaving me feeling empty?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
A dating club is meant for that kind of arrangement, so I don’t think you need to worry about it.
Some women do date without receiving an allowance, of course. But if that’s what you want, you might as well meet women through ordinary pickup. More importantly, things can get messy depending on how you end things or handle the distance between you.
And picking women up takes a fair amount of time. We’re not exactly that free, are we? Besides, you’d…
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📅 Nov 5, 2018 08:01
The date starts at 8 p.m.—would a woman consider that too late for dinner?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪.
I once had an experience involving a 10:00 p.m. meeting. It was due to my work schedule, but we agreed on covering my taxi fare home plus an allowance, and the arrangement is still ongoing.
Conversely, I’ve also met someone at 9:00 a.m., almost like a breakfast meeting.
I imagine it may have been difficult to find a woman willing to meet at that time, but while many people would say no, there are definitely some who are okay with it.
As for the qu…
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📅 Nov 3, 2018 20:48
For male members: Have there been any incidents that made you decide not to date a female member you were introduced to again?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
For me, as everyone has mentioned, it would probably be lateness…
The Black C woman I met last month was 20 minutes late to our first meeting. She said she’d taken a taxi, but the distance should only have taken about 15 minutes. Maybe she didn’t leave home until the meeting time?
Michelin-starred sushi restaurants usually start serving everyone at the same time, so I thought, “There’s no way I could take her somewhere like that.”
Another issue i…
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📅 Nov 3, 2018 20:45
Female members, could you share any memorable, enjoyable dates? I’d love some ideas. *The person asking is a male member.*
💬 Answer from 間宮（銀座スタッフ）:
We asked a female member who absolutely loves Mamiya from Universe Club Tokyo to share her answer♪
Dear Mamiya,
Thank you as always for everything.
Thank you so much for reaching out to me (*^^*)
I’m very happy.
I’m embarrassed to share my limited experience, which probably won’t be helpful at all.
That said, none of these happened on a first date, and none involved someone I was introduced to through Universe Club(^^)
・One Sunday, we met as usual at 11 a.m. He said, “Ho…
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📅 Nov 2, 2018 09:54
I read somewhere that male members receive an average of 6 or 7 offers a year. How many female members are they typically seeing during the same period? Please share any examples you know.
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
This is Saito, the columnist ♪
At the same time...
For some reason, having a lot of women makes me feel like my status as a man goes up, so I’d like to say around 30. And if I add the idea that “there’s always someone available whenever I reach out,” then I suppose the number would be even higher.
That said...
How many women are there that you genuinely want to see on a regular basis?
Rather than women who can match the status of a male member, how many women can you ac…
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📅 Nov 2, 2018 08:06
I have my first date next week—what’s the usual flow? I’d like to have dinner and, if things progress from there, go to a hotel. Are love hotels generally off-limits?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
It’s columnist Saito♪
Why not be honest with her and talk it over during dinner?
If you try too hard at the beginning, it’ll only become more difficult to keep up as things continue. And you probably wouldn’t want to make things especially generous at first, only to downgrade them next time.
If you’re hoping to continue seeing her for a long time, I think you should honestly tell her how you feel and then decide what to do based on her reaction.
The harder something is …
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📅 Nov 2, 2018 07:52
The title “What Our Customers Say” feels a little off. Could it be changed to “What Our Members Say” or “What Our Registered Users Say”?
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
We sincerely apologize for the very late reply.
Kida, our representative, will respond.
You’re absolutely right. We’ve asked our production team to make the change, so it should be updated soon.
Thank you for your valuable feedback.
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📅 Nov 2, 2018 01:32
I work in the adult entertainment industry—can I still register…?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, the columnist♪
Some women start papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) after working in the adult entertainment industry, while others move from papa-katsu into that line of work. There are also people involved in AV, so you really don’t need to worry about anything. Why not feel free to get in touch?
I recently had an unpleasant breakup with an AV actress I met through Universe, so I currently have an opening（笑）
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📅 Nov 1, 2018 23:32
If a female member I was introduced to, whom I had been seeing seriously about four times, hasn’t contacted me for over a month, should I assume the relationship is over and stop reaching out?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, the columnist♪
Let’s assume it’s over.
Actually, you should probably figure that out around the second time it happens.
There’s also a chance you lost touch because something happened with your phone or contact information. But even then, let’s accept it as fate and move on.
Think of it as training for building yourself up, and even if it feels like a hassle, go out and make new connections.
The only revenge you can take on her is to become such a great guy t…
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📅 Nov 1, 2018 16:07
Once you join a dating club, don’t you start looking at every cute or beautiful woman you pass by and wondering if she’s registered too?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, the column writer♪
I feel the same way.
At a Ginza club, I discreetly asked a woman who gave off the impression that she might be doing papa-katsu, and she gave me this wonderful answer:
“I’m registered with Universe under the name ○○.”
I’ve had two lucky experiences where I hit it off with women from Ginza clubs the first time we met, without even paying Universe’s offer fee. Three times if you include regional clubs♪
I’m no Don Juan, but as papa-katsu is b…
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📅 Nov 1, 2018 16:02
I can only spend around 1.5 million yen a year on dating. Is it impossible to have a satisfying relationship with a black- or platinum-tier woman on that budget?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
This is Saito, your vulgar columnist ♪
It’s totally possible if you keep each date and allowance under ¥100,000 and meet once a month.
That said, this only works if you can be satisfied with a little fun once a month…
Platinum members get a lot of offers, and some women take a pretty assertive attitude, so some men say Black is the hidden gem. And once you go a little farther from the city, there are still plenty of genuinely sweet women.
Some women even say they don’t ne…
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📅 Nov 1, 2018 15:59
Don’t you ever feel bad about yourself for being unable to have a relationship with a woman unless you pay? That was the biggest issue I faced after joining a dating club, and it troubles me every day.
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
It’s columnist Saito here♪
What are you talking about? You joined a dating club where you can’t even be introduced to a woman without paying up.
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📅 Nov 1, 2018 15:56
What ultimately matters most when it comes to winning a woman’s heart? If the relationship won’t continue unless money is involved, is money the answer after all? Assuming that’s a given, what else matters?
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📅 Nov 1, 2018 15:53
What are the chances of finding a long-term partner through a dating club—around 10%? And how long does the relationship with her typically last? About a year?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, the columnist ♪
When you develop a mutually positive relationship that continues over time, I feel like it’s rare for the woman to be the one who ends things. In fact, among relationships that last over a year, I get the impression that men are more often the ones who call it quits.
Rather than being “found,” it’s simply difficult to end a relationship between a man and a woman in the first place.
Since papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) became popular, co…