Lately, I’ve repeatedly found myself disappointed after being intimate with women in their early twenties. Even allowing for it being our first time, they seemed reluctant to kiss, said things like “Don’t touch me there so much,” “Would it be okay to use a condom for oral?” “Just put it in quickly,” and “Finish quickly.” Then they showered immediately afterward. For intimacy like that, I feel it was worth only around 5,000 yen, yet I’m told that anything under 10,000 yen is out of the question. I was surprised to hear from other men that some had even paid 20,000 yen or more. They were all beautiful and had great figures—Black or Platinum on Type B or Type C—but I can’t imagine wanting to continue seeing women like that. Do they genuinely believe that men were satisfied with intimacy like this, and that they themselves are worth that much?

I’m Saito, a columnist♪ To the person who asked this question… that must have been a shock. If there was a man willing to offer her that much, why is she being intimate with you for so little? Most likely, that man has since found someone special, and because things didn’t continue under those terms, she may have had no choice but to lower her expectations. Since this is a free-choice relationship, I imagine each woman has conditions she refuses to compromise on when dealing with men. And since men also pay an introduction fee, they aren’t simply handing over ¥10,000 for transportation and sending her home, so I can understand how you feel. However, just as we may think, “Why is she charging more when she’s inferior to the woman I’m currently seeing?” women may also think, “I let him go all the way for ¥〇〇, so why should I have to do it with you for ¥〇〇?” I think it simply comes down to both sides having their own expectations, and the two of you not being a match. By the time she comes to terms with this, she may already be in her thirties. (I assume you prefer younger women.) As a strategy, targeting women who have just joined may slightly improve your chances. There are other complications that come with that, though…