Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 May 2, 2019 23:44
I’m considering joining through a friend’s introduction, but although I think I have a decent figure, I’m not particularly confident about my looks. I’m hesitant because I wonder whether this is really the kind of site where someone like me—a 36-year-old divorcee—should register. I’m looking to meet a mature, gentlemanly man, but I’m also aware that I’m not at an age where I should expect financial support. I’d like to know whether ther...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here.
I get the impression that you’re a kind person.
> I also feel somewhat apologetic about money being involved, especially considering my age.
In that case, when a man invites you on a date, you could simply leave everything up to him.
There is a chance you might not receive any money at all, but a decent man will probably give you a reasonable allowance.
And sometimes, men are drawn to women who can appreciate it, no matter how much they receive.
I think pr…
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📅 May 2, 2019 23:08
About “You’re Wonderful.” How do you evaluate it after its introduction? Personally, I receive about two “You’re Wonderful” messages a day on average, though I’m not sure whether that’s a lot or a little. However, I haven’t found anyone I’m interested in, so nothing has really changed…
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist ♪
There’s a woman’s post titled “You seem wonderful,” and I really wish it wouldn’t disappear after 30 days.
Why am I shouting this here? LOL
I wasn’t interested at first either, but later there was a woman who gradually grew on me, and I started thinking, “Maybe I should make her an offer.”
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Then her post disappeared, and I couldn’t remember who she was anymore… *sigh*
That actually happened to me.
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📅 May 2, 2019 23:07
Nice to meet you—I’m a female university student. I realize this may sound presumptuous coming from a university student, but I have a question. Looking through this Q&A site, I get the impression that men with social status and sharp minds also expect women to have a suitable level of knowledge and experience, which makes me wonder whether there’s really any demand for university students. In practice, I feel that youth is about the on...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here—I’ll answer as well.
I don’t think they’re necessarily looking for women with a lot of knowledge. It’s more about the ability to interact with people and hold a conversation that comes from life experience—in other words, women who are fun to be around.
I’m not sure whether attending a fairly well-known university makes someone stand out, but I think being from an extremely prestigious university gets you noticed in much the same way it does in mainstream socie…
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📅 May 2, 2019 01:03
I recently went to an interview and was rejected (I’m a woman). Could you please explain why you still take photos even when someone isn’t accepted? I had looked at your website beforehand, so I had a general idea of what the photoshoot would be like. Based on the atmosphere during the photoshoot at the interview, I could tell I wasn’t going to be accepted. I feel bad for taking up your time and trouble.
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📅 May 1, 2019 05:42
Lately, I’ve been receiving offers from younger men, but personally, I’d prefer offers from men around 50 or older. I’d appreciate any advice on what kind of outfits women in their 20s can wear to appeal to that age group.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I’ll answer as Maezawa.
Since there are many men in their 40s and 50s, if you’re receiving offers from men in their 40s and up, they don’t seem particularly young to me. Or are you saying that you’re having trouble because you’re getting a lot of offers from men in their 30s?
Many men in their 40s and 50s seem to prefer women around 30 because they feel they’re more mature and composed. (Though some do prefer younger women.)
That’s why, generally speaking, many men want to…
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📅 Apr 29, 2019 23:08
I’m a male member. I’ve seen a few women write that they’d like to receive several hundred thousand yen a month in support. Are there actually members who provide that kind of amount? Personally, to be honest, I’d be offering one digit less. This would be after meeting for the first time, so the club may not be involved or even aware of the details, though…
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📅 Apr 29, 2019 19:15
It says my email address isn’t registered, and I can’t log in. Does this mean my account was automatically canceled?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here.
We send out a message every six months to confirm whether you’d like to remain a member. If we don’t receive a response, it’s possible that our message simply didn’t reach you. However, even if that’s the reason, we still wouldn’t be able to contact you when an offer comes in, so we temporarily change your status to withdrawn.
That said, this is only because we haven’t been able to get in touch with you. If you contact us, we can restore your membership as is.…
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📅 Apr 29, 2019 17:21
I hear that half of the women who register disappear without ever receiving an offer. How do you feel about their disappointment? Is it simply, “Dating clubs aren’t easy—that’s just how it is”? I’m not criticizing anyone (I couldn’t possibly do that). I’d like to hear your thoughts.
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📅 Apr 29, 2019 16:01
Isn’t it seriously worrying that, with longtime veterans like Takita-san gone, the management is getting carried away with incomprehensible buzzword-heavy management ideas? Is the club’s future really safe?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here—I’ll answer this one too.
> “That incomprehensible management jargon”
Wait, are you someone from inside the company?
I’m curious how you know so much about the company’s internal organization.
If by “management jargon” you mean department names in English, titles like Chief Concierge and Head Concierge have existed for quite some time. So this isn’t something that just started recently; I think the idea of using English terms was there from the beginning.
I…
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📅 Apr 29, 2019 11:06
A male member boasts on his blog that he’s met nearly 40 women and ended up in relationships with five of them without an allowance. Is that really true? (汗)
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here—I’ll answer as well.
When it comes to a personal blog, the author is free to write whatever they want. They can write things their readers will enjoy, as well as things that aren’t true.
So even if you ask us, “Is this really true?” only the person involved can know for sure.
I think it would be better to ask them directly.
Incidentally, judging solely from the words “we became involved without an allowance,” it could mean that they initially had an arrangeme…
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📅 Apr 29, 2019 00:50
If I don’t receive any offers for several months after registering, can I consult the staff and have them introduce me to someone? For example, could they contact a man they think might be a good match and say, “This member, ●●, hasn’t received any offers yet, but she seems to fit your preferences. What do you think?” I can only speculate about how men feel, but if a woman is their type, I imagine some might become interested when they ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here.
For example, in Tokyo, we’re currently short on staff, so I don’t think we’ve been able to offer the kind of service you mentioned.
Some branches may offer something like that, but I don’t believe it’s available nationwide as a standard service.
I think that kind of service would be useful too, so hopefully we’ll be able to offer it in the future.
As for Tokyo, we’ve recently made a major effort to increase our staff. Once they’re fully trained and we have m…
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📅 Apr 28, 2019 23:24
Is my weight shown to men as well?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here.
A woman’s weight is displayed to male members.
We also indicate whether it’s an actual measurement taken at the club—which is why every branch has a scale—or a figure self-reported by the woman.
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📅 Apr 28, 2019 19:09
Can men in any class view women in all classes on the site (except Secret)? I currently attend what people would call a prestigious school, and I won Miss ○○ during my second year, so anyone who recognizes me would know who I am. It was even covered in online articles. However, I’ve heard that setting my profile to Secret may reduce the number of offers I receive or make it harder for the staff to introduce me, so I’d rather not do that...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here.
Men in every membership class can view all the different classes on the members-only site.
How about registering with your photos blurred?
As for mentioning prestigious schools or being Miss ○○, it would normally be better to include that information. However, if you’re worried about being recognized, you could leave those details out and simply present yourself as you are. We usually ask women to list their school, but you can register without disclosing it.…
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📅 Apr 28, 2019 18:43
Would it be possible to receive the photos taken during the interview via LINE or something similar?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here with an answer.
We used to provide them, but some people were using the photos elsewhere. With the large number of interviews, there was also the issue of the time and effort involved in handing them over, so we no longer provide them.
That said, policies vary by branch, so why not ask the staff member in charge at your interview?
Some branches may be willing to accommodate you—for example, by providing one photo or perhaps five or six.
Incidentally, when sho…
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📅 Apr 28, 2019 16:43
I’d like to have my photos retaken—could anyone recommend someone in Tokyo who’s good at taking pictures?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here.
I’m the one who’s good at taking photos, haha. But setting aside that pointless bit of self-praise…
Almost all of our staff, except for newcomers who’ve been with us for less than six months, are good at taking photos.
That’s because if someone uploads a bad photo, they’re quickly called out internally and told things like, “You should take it more like this.”
That said, you may still end up being assigned a newcomer, so it’s a bit difficult to guarantee.
W…
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📅 Apr 28, 2019 16:00
Lately, I’ve noticed more men on Universe who are like the ones on Paters, and I’m honestly surprised that some of them are actually better on the app… This is exactly the kind of place where I want to meet a true gentleman.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here.
I had always thought that, unlike on dating apps, most men on Universe were gentlemanly and financially well-off. But if that’s how people feel, it sounds like Universe needs to step up its efforts to gather information as well.
By the way, could you tell me specifically what you mean by men who aren’t gentlemanly, like those on Pairs?
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📅 Apr 28, 2019 11:50
There was a question below about event announcements and LINE messages suddenly not being marked as read, and mine aren’t being marked as read either. I received the following response: “You may have sent the message to an old LINE account that is no longer in use, so please contact the branch where you registered and ask whether it’s the LINE account currently being used by Universe. If it’s different, they should be able to provide yo...
💬 Answer from 逢沢 大和:
This is Aizawa, in charge of events in the Kanto area.
All messages sent to the Kanto event LINE account have currently been marked as read. If you’re a Kanto-area member, you may not have registered successfully, so please contact the branch where you registered.
Members in the Kansai area use a different account, and the process may be different there. We’d appreciate it if you could contact them as well!
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📅 Apr 27, 2019 23:37
Nice to meet you. I’m a woman considering signing up. Would it be possible to have a female staff member handle my interview from start to finish?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here.
That should be possible if you let us know during the communication before your interview.
That said, some branches are staffed exclusively by men, so it may be difficult in those cases.
Also, there may be days when only male staff are working on your preferred date, so you’ll need to be somewhat flexible about the date and time.
If those points can be worked out, I think we can accommodate your request.
Still, it’s puzzling that you want a female interview…
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📅 Apr 27, 2019 23:04
A question for the staff: Are the event-only LINE account and the “Today’s Last-Minute” LINE account working properly? I registered and sent a message, but it still hasn’t been marked as read.
💬 Answer from 逢沢 大和:
This is Aizawa from the Events Team.
Although replies on the event-specific LINE account may occasionally be delayed when staff are off, it appears there were no unread messages as of yesterday or today, Sunday, April 28.
It’s possible the message in question was sent some time ago. I believe the best option would be to contact the branch where you registered.
We apologize for the inconvenience, and thank you for your understanding.
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📅 Apr 27, 2019 20:14
I’ve been registered for five months but still haven’t received a single offer. I’m also using Suteki desu ne. Does that mean there’s simply no demand for me?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here.
I’m sorry to hear that you haven’t received any offers.
I can’t say much without knowing who you are, but first, I recommend contacting the branch where you registered and asking, “I haven’t received any offers in five months. What should I do?”
They may realize the situation and suggest lowering your class or making some other adjustments.
Also, could you ask about having your photos retaken? Depending on how busy the branch is, they may tell you to wait un…