I accidentally let it slip that I have my papa’s LINE notifications turned off, and now he’s responding like he’s really hurt.
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I usually livestream as part of my idol activities, so I explained that to him, but apparently he’s still just as disappointed, and he may suspect I’m seeing someone else.
We’d been all lovey-dovey for the first month after meeting—what could I say to make him understand?
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> What could I say to make him understand?
I don’t think he’ll be satisfied no matter what you say. If you’ve already explained the reasons and apologized, I think it’s okay to respond a little more coldly from here on.
You could say something like:
“I regularly livestream as part of my idol activities, so my notifications will stay turned off from now on. If you can’t accept that, then I don’t know what else to tell you.”
If he gets upset over that, I think you’d be better off looking for a new papa (a male supporter).
The fact that you two were lovey-dovey is in the past. Based on what you’ve said, it sounds like it’ll be difficult to get back to that now.
I’m sure there are better papas out there. You should probably focus on meeting a new one.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Is he the kind of man who says, “I want you to be with me and only me”?
If not, I don’t think most men would be concerned about cheating.
That said, if you’ve only known each other for a month, this could still be something that leads to you parting ways.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If she had notifications turned off altogether during the livestream, that would be one thing. But if you were the only person she muted, I can understand why that would sting a little. That said, since you’re a papa—a man who operates in the shadows—you may just have to accept that this comes with the territory.
Putting that aside, I don’t think there’s any way to make her understand all at once. You’ll have to take your time and show her that, even though you’re a man in the shadows, she matters to you, and make her feel that she’s important to you.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
“How about this? If a notification accidentally appears during a livestream, it could upset my fans and I might not be able to continue working as an idol. I really love this job, so I absolutely want to balance it with my relationship with you. Also, if my LINE messages with you were exposed to my fans during a stream, I don’t know what angry fans might do to me… A few years ago, an underground idol was stabbed, and my agency has also given me strict instructions about how to deal with fans.”
Would this work? I just hope that papa isn’t reading this…
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