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Sep 10, 2021 21:30
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My first thought was, “I’m already giving you enough, so buy it yourself,” so I feel like she should just buy it herself.
But I may have gotten a little too emotionally involved, and it made me feel empty realizing that she was only spending time with me because of mama-katsu.
Do male members not feel that emptiness?
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I can relate to the attitude of, “I’ve given you enough, so buy it yourself.”
I think I do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because of a sense of emptiness—or because I feel like something is missing.
I do feel empty, but I’m having fun.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
There’s always a sense of emptiness.
Even after a satisfying date, I light the cigarette I’d been holding off on during the walk home, blow smoke into the night sky, and think,
“What am I doing with my life?”
Then I fart.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member—and when it comes to her, I’m the loser.
I sometimes feel empty when I’m on a date with someone other than my ace girl.
Especially on the way home after an adult relationship (intimate).
Dates with my ace girl make me feel like I’m in a dream, both during and after the date.
Even on dinner-only (no intimacy) days.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Hikōki, a male member.
> Don’t male members feel empty?
Being introduced to women through money and having them spend time with you—it’s pretty pathetic, isn’t it? You’re doing something you’d never want to do, even if it killed you.
But that also means it has that much value.
And it shows just how incredible women are—to men, at least…
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t feel particularly empty when I first meet someone. I haven’t grown attached yet.
But sometimes I worry that while I think we’ve gotten closer and come to understand each other, she may see me as nothing more than another client. That would be pretty depressing.