I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
I missed this.
Mac and Makeotoko, it’s way too scary for me to judge between you two—I couldn’t do it.
Why don’t we settle the winner and loser with The Game of Life or Momotetsu?
I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
> All my papas act like they’re doing me a huge favor, and that’s what I struggle with.
> Am I handling things badly?
It’s hard to tell from the wording alone, but there’s no doubt that attitude comes from them caring about you that much. You might simply accept it—or brush it off lightly.
Looking at it another way, they may be trying to tell you that you’re wonderful and that you mean so much to them.
“Of course you would. I’m me, after all. You want to do that much for me, don’t you?”
A papa acting like he’s doing you a favor → the woman is attractive → he wants more of her attention
I think it’s fine to tease them by acting as though it’s only natural. Maybe they’re looking for a back-and-forth exchange of affection.
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
> Am I treating him poorly?
I’ve never been harsh with him at all, and I feel like I’m embracing him with a calm and caring attitude, but maybe that still isn’t getting through to him.
Questioner, what happened? Did something happen?
If you’re worried, try asking in the Q&A box and hearing different perspectives.
I’m the male member known as Loser Man—otherwise known as Maezawa from the president’s office.
Apparently, some people say I’m Maezawa, so please don’t take that too seriously.
Maezawa set up an LLC for his favorite girl, but in the end, he did it for himself.
Sometimes I worry that there might not be anyone who would genuinely cry at my funeral.
Of course, I assume my relatives would cry (probably), but I thought it would be nice if there were even just one woman with no blood relation to me—just a complete stranger—who would cry at my funeral and visit my grave every year on the anniversary of my death. That’s why I set up the company.
“So cheap, using money to get that!”
I’m sure all the male members who hate me will say that.
And they’re absolutely right, so I can’t argue with them. (汗)
Men really are foolish creatures. Basically, we’re all just masturbating.
If there are 100 papas, there are 100 different forms of masturbation, and each of them must feel grateful toward the women they date.
Someone like me—a talentless, unattractive man with nothing inside—can only show his appreciation to the women he dates with money, so that’s what I do.
That said, I think there are plenty of people who aren’t capable of feeling gratitude.
On the other hand, I’ve seen plenty of papas who say, “I’m paying you, so I’m superior—show me some gratitude,” as well as women who say, “I’m offering my young body, so you should be grateful.”
I’m sure you’re really suffering right now, but if you expect something in return, it’ll only hurt even more.
If you can adopt the mindset that
“What I do for my papa is my own form of masturbation,”
then perhaps things will feel a little easier.
I wish you the best of luck.
■To Mack
Your analysis is so accurate that it’s scary… What kind of experiences do you have to go through to become able to see people like that??
As you said, women do take advantage of me. I’m a terrible papa who never asks for anything, never expects gratitude, and says yes to everything. (汗)
But then some mysterious switch flips in my head: “Fine, I’ll just make enough money that I won’t care. Just you wait and see.” And, as you said, I’ve lived my whole life on nothing but my fighting spirit.
Even when I’m not interested, men constantly pick fights with me, so before I knew it, I’d become someone who thinks, “Come at me if you dare.” (汗)
Let’s definitely grab some tea.
Maezawa has my LINE invitation link, so I’ll email him and ask him to pass the link on to you, Mack.
Oh, wait—I am Maezawa, so I can just do it myself. (笑)
