What are the main reasons women leave a dating club? Statistics aren’t necessary—I’d appreciate hearing about cases you know of. Quite a few women I had saved as favorites or dated in the past have left—or perhaps paused—their memberships, so I’m curious. *The questioner is a male member.*

Maezawa answers. The most common message is something simple like, “I’d like to cancel my membership,” with no reason given. If she has already been on a date, we usually ask why, and she’ll give us some plausible explanation. But I often feel there may be another reason behind it. One thing that concerns me is that, in reality, quite a few women quit after a date when the man wasn’t exactly breaking the rules, but still failed to treat her like a gentleman. Most men are gentlemanly, but there are a very small number who aren’t. While we’re debating whether to forcibly terminate one of those men’s memberships, more and more women who dated him may end up quitting. With men like that, the data makes it easy to see that many women leave after dating them. However, when we ask the women why, they often say something like, “It wasn’t because of the recent date.” That makes it difficult to forcibly terminate the man’s membership based on that alone. Of course, women with a strong enough sense of conviction will stay and send negative feedback about the man instead of quitting. In some cases, we may tell the man that if we receive another negative report, his membership will be terminated. Aside from situations like these, there are also women who find that the dating club itself wasn’t what they expected, or who had already planned to quit once a certain time came around. There are also women who only intended to register for a short while in the first place, so I don’t think there’s any single, definitive reason.