I’m the person who asked about being inexperienced last night.
This content is machine-translated.
Thank you for all the advice.
I understand that I may have better chances if I reconsider the terms.
However, if there are still only a few people who would be interested, I feel it may take some time to find a match.
I’ve reconsidered the terms a little:
- Change it from accompanying me on business trips to regular dates.
- Change the fixed allowance to around 300,000 yen.
- Limit the number of meetings to three.
- Pay the fixed allowance even if we don’t get a chance to meet.
With terms like these, would more people be willing to consider it?
As an additional question, could you tell me the age distribution of the female members?
I’m 52, and I’m hoping to meet someone around 28 to 40 years old.
I’d appreciate any information you can provide.
Thank you.
I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think the women who would agree to the previous terms and the current terms would be any different.
That’s because “I want you to date only me” is the strictest condition, and the questioner hasn’t been willing to compromise on that.
Women who also prefer to have just one partner, if possible, would probably agree to the previous terms as well.
I feel that many of those women aren’t solely motivated by money.
As I mentioned in another answer, I know a Type B woman who turned down a monthly allowance of 500,000 yen and a pay-per-meeting allowance of 100,000 yen. It’s probably best to avoid the mindset that you can win someone over by throwing money at them.
The age range is pretty broad—there are women from 18 to 50.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m a male member—a bit of a loser, honestly.
I think your terms are close to perfect. Even women in the Black tier would probably be happy to accept them. That said, I can’t say whether any of them would become exclusive. From the man’s side, you can’t really know whether a woman is seeing only you.
To lay out what you should do:
1. Join Universe.
2. Go on lots of letter dates with B-type women.
※Tell them your relationship terms and only meet for dinner with those who are interested.
3. Try an adult relationship to see whether you’re physically compatible.
4. Choose your winner.
Something like that, I suppose.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Just like Akari, I usually meet for a meal first, and if we hit it off, I’m open to discussing the terms.
Until recently, I worked as a secretary and also in a hospital, but I’m currently unemployed, so I’d appreciate it if you would consider me…
Oh, wait—my age doesn’t qualify. I’m sorry <(_ _)>
I think the quickest way is to join first and have the staff help you find someone.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
This is just my personal opinion.
If we have dinner and hit it off, I’d be happy to accept your terms.
That said, I’m over 40, lol.
I hope you find someone you can talk to and really connect with.
Akari
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I also saw your previous question. I’m not sure what region you’re in, but I think it could be enjoyable to see someone local. They can tell you about the area and recommend good places to eat, which I think would make it worthwhile.
The woman you meet will have her own thoughts and preferences, and you may or may not click. Rather than starting with a monthly arrangement right away, I think it’s better to take your time assessing her, carefully confirm what she wants, discuss the terms together, and then decide on a monthly arrangement.
At first, you should also be prepared for the possibility that you may need to make several pay-per-meeting offers before finding someone whose terms work for you.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Aya, a female member.
The more you increase the allowance, the more women will be willing to do what you ask—but that’s a separate issue from whether you’re truly compatible.
So why not reach out to several women and gradually spend more time with the ones you enjoy being around, who are considerate, and whom you feel drawn to? In the process, the pay-per-meeting allowance may increase, and I think it’s best to move to a monthly arrangement only once you’ve both agreed to it.
Also, be careful if a woman suggests a monthly arrangement herself. She could be a professional, or someone who may stop seeing you as soon as you switch to a monthly arrangement.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
This is just my personal opinion, but I don’t think you should jump straight into a monthly arrangement.
As Aya mentioned, it’s better to consider a monthly arrangement after you’ve been seeing each other for a while, gotten to know each other’s personalities, and found a comfortable rhythm.
People—both men and women—who bring up a monthly arrangement from the very first date tend to be too focused on what they want. Even though an allowance is involved, this is still a relationship, and there’s another person to consider. I don’t think you should limit the possibilities of building a good relationship by deciding from the outset that it has to be monthly.
First, I’d suggest sending offers to women you’d genuinely like to meet and whose lifestyles seem compatible with accompanying you on your business trips. From there, you can choose someone whose schedule works well for you.
Depending on how high your standards are, I imagine you could find someone by sending offers to around 10–30 women.
As for the age distribution, there seem to be quite a lot of women in their late 20s to early 30s. Women in their late 30s seem somewhat less common compared with those in their late 20s to early 30s.
P.S.
Regarding the age distribution, the largest group is women in their early 20s, followed by those in their late 20s, early 30s, and late 30s.
Women in their late 20s through late 30s make up roughly half of the female members.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I’m a male member of the club, and a beautiful woman who recently joined has been venting to me about the club’s men, saying, “They think money can buy them anything.”
There’s nothing wrong with offering a generous allowance, but it can also make women feel obligated to cater to you, leaving you like an emperor with no idea what’s really going on, enjoying every comfort without a care.
I feel that being a papa means not only making women happy, but also helping them relieve their stress.
Rather than focusing on your terms, I hope you can show the woman you’re seeing what makes you attractive.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
