Thank you, as always, to everyone who takes the time to answer these questions. I’m continually impressed by your experienced and diverse opinions. The characteristics of different age groups and regions have also been extremely helpful in my own dating activities.
My question is: What kind of profiles do each of the answerers have?
Would you kindly share a brief profile using the points below?
・Answerer’s name (column pen name)
・Gender
・Approximate age (e.g., early 30s, around 40)
・Registered branch
・Membership class
・Number of years as a member
I’m sure this is something many readers—not just myself, an avid reader of this site—would be curious about. Knowing what kind of people these opinions come from would surely deepen our understanding. Some of this may overlap with the column-writer introductions on the column site’s Darling and Cinderella sections, but I hope you won’t be too formal about it and will kindly consider helping this anonymous question box continue to grow.
These are the answerers whose posts I’ve come across (my apologies if I’ve missed anyone):
Maezawa
Mac
Kazu
Papuwa
Paper Airplane
茉莉花
Flag Maker
Aya
Meg
Date◎Yume
Seattle
Saito♪
Shingo Lee (Shingori)
Ayase Nana♡
Taro
Dai
Makeo
Akari
It’s Me
Uwan
ぁりす
Simba
BB7
Kei
Thank you very much for your kind consideration.
I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
I’m seriously late to the party…
- Male
- Late 30s to early 40s
- Registered branch: ? I live in Tokyo.
- Member class: ? I come from the pickup-artist scene.
- Years as a member: 9 years of dating women in the broad sense; four years with my current style.
- I generally keep supporters under 30, especially women around 20.
Last year, there were tons of first-year college students who couldn’t return to their hometowns because of the COVID boom, but this year has been much tougher.
I like girls who are curious about lots of things, including intimacy.
Exploring all kinds of things together makes me happy.
At work, I’m a completely unpopular, left-on-the-shelf, drab guy with glasses. But once I leave the office, I take them off and let loose.
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I’m honored to have been chosen.
・Answerer: It’s Me (I’m not a columnist)
・Gender: Male
・Age: In my 50s
・Registered branch: Tokyo
・Membership class: Currently Platinum ← Gold when I joined
・Length of membership: 2 years and 8 months
I have one favorite partner who recently celebrated her second anniversary of being with me last week.
She’s a popular woman, and she’s sitting right next to me eating potato chips♪( ´▽｀)
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I’m Meg, one of the female members.
I’m a fabulous forty-something. I’ve been registered with the Osaka branch for almost two years, but I’ve mostly kept my membership on hold because I absolutely adore the papa who took me under his wing.
I’m planning to leave the club at the end of this month.
Even though I only answered occasionally, I’m truly touched that you read my posts and even mentioned me by name.
Thank you for everything♪
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
- Respondent’s name (columnist name): Date◎Yume
- Gender: Male
- Approximate age (e.g., early 30s, around 40): In my 60s
- Registered branch: Regional member, including Tokyo
- Membership class: Currently Gold
- Years as a member: Approximately 3 years
- Current dating partner: 1, relationship of approximately 3 years
- Time since my last offer: Approximately 3 years
- Current favorites: 9
- Dating style: Focusing on one person and staying true to my initial choice
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Gender: Male
Age: Mid-40s
Registered branch: Nagoya
Membership class: Gold → Platinum → Black → Gold
Membership duration: 2 years and 2 months
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・Answerer’s name: Nana Ayase ♡
・Gender: Female member
・Approximate age: Late 40s
・Registered branch: Osaka
・Membership class: I don’t know♪
・Years as a member: 5 months
Is this okay?
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Gender: Female
Approximate age: 40s
Registered branch: Kansai
Membership: Six months, then paused
Current arrangement: One person—a very possessive papa
Nice to meet you.
Akari
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
- Gender: Probably male
- Approximate age: Around 50
- Branch: Keeping that private
- Membership class: Started as Platinum → Black → Standard
(I’ve experienced the mindset of being in nearly every class, including whether to upgrade, whether upgrading is worth it, and wanting to focus on my favorites but being unable to stop accepting offers. I’d be happy to answer based on those experiences.)
- Length of membership: About a year and a half
- Current partners: Mainly two Black B2 women, plus several others
- Allowance offered: I don’t make an offer upfront
- Dating style: I let the women take me wherever they want—basically a stress-relief specialist. I mainly see women who aren’t familiar with the club (or have already moved on from it) and prioritize chemistry. With women who are familiar with the club, I meet them about once or twice a month and vary what we do. If you’re looking for women who aren’t used to the club scene, feel free to ask.
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I’m in Seattle.
- Respondent’s name (columnist name): Seattle
- Gender: Male member
- Approximate age: Around 50
- Registered branch: Prefer not to say
- Membership class: Gold
- Length of membership: Two and a half years
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I’m “Make-Losing Men Lose” among the male members.
- **Name used by respondents:** People keep telling me, “You must be Mr. Maezawa, right?” So I guess I’m Mr. Maezawa.
- **Gender:** Male
- **Registered branch:** The President’s Office
- **Women I’ve made offers to:** Ages 19–48 (mainly Type B, from Gold to Black. I don’t make offers to Type D, while I occasionally offer to Types A and C when I feel like it. The reason I haven’t made offers to Standard members is simply that I don’t have time to check them.)
- **Number of ongoing arrangements:** 9 monthly arrangements, 4 occasional ones
- **Branches where the women I see are registered:** From Hiroshima to Chiba
- **Pay-per-meeting allowance:** 100,000–500,000 yen
- **Membership class:** Black
- **Length of membership:** Less than one year
- **Personality:** Women always describe me as gentle, but men sometimes call me a mad dog.
- **Special skill:** Being disliked by male members
- **Goal at the club:** To raise the going allowance rate at Universe to a level that feels like 600,000 yen or more.
Incidentally—just to be clear—if I were thinking only of myself, the lower the going allowance rate at Universe, the better. That’s because negotiating terms with women would be easier. In reality, it’s a piece of cake.
But it’s obvious that when the going allowance rate drops, wonderful women will eventually start avoiding Universe, which would be a huge problem. That’s why I became a respondent: I want to raise the going rate.
The club can’t say anything about allowances, and when women bring it up, for some reason they get mocked as “money monsters.” So until the club deletes my respondent account, I intend to keep speaking up for better treatment of women.
*Men who call women money monsters are the real kings of money monsters, aren’t they?*
Dating clubs exist because of women.
I won’t compromise on that even one millimeter. The club’s profits come next. The interests of male members? I couldn’t care less. If you’re a man, handle your own problems. Why should I have to change some old man’s diapers? I’d be happy to change a woman’s panties, though. ♡
That’s all.
■ **Update**
After an adult date with a woman from Kansai, she once told me:
“I was nervous because the amount you offered was unusually high, and I thought you might expect some kinky play. But I was surprised that you were a gentleman even in bed…”
That’s one of the most memorable things anyone has said to me.
When I told my coordinator this story, they burst out laughing, now that I think about it.
“My allowance offers are higher than anyone else’s, but what I ask of women is less than anyone else’s.”
I believe it’s precisely because I operate by that motto that I passed the club’s screening and became a respondent. Or so I’d like to think.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
- Gender: Male
- Approximate age: Late 30s
- Registered branch: Tokyo
- Membership class: Black
- Length of membership: About two years
- Current partners: Black B, Black C, and several others
- Allowance offered: 5
- Dating style: I go out of my way to cater to the women I’m seeing.
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I’m Jasmine.
I’m a woman in my late 40s, based in Tokyo.
I’m currently taking a break from the site.
I’ve answered only within the scope of what I happened to mention in my responses.
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