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Sep 9, 2021 09:07
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
If the allowance is high, you should consider that there may be a reason she’s not exactly ordinary.
It’s unfortunate that you seem to be having intimacy that isn’t enjoyable.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
A marathon with no visible finish line is hard to pace yourself for, isn’t it? If you start out running at a pace that should get you to the finish in 15 minutes, but you’re still not there after an hour, it’s absolute torture.
At some point, you might start feeling like, “Oh no. I moaned way too much at the beginning and I’m exhausted. And now I’m having trouble getting wet. This is bad（笑）.”
I lose focus if it goes on too long, so I can’t keep it up for hours either. And if I can tell the woman is thinking, “This is taking forever…,” I lose interest, so I always make sure to finish before it gets to that point.
いっつ・みぃ
Male
Send a reverse offer to this responder
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
It’s me, Itsu!
We do as much as we want because we both want to spend lots of time together.
We stay for a long time because we both want to be together.
Wherever we are and whatever we’re doing, we want to spend all our time making sure we’re happy and having fun, right?
...That’s what I was chatting about on LINE while looking at this question with a female member I’m seeing now—she’s someone I absolutely adore, haha.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
> Is this way of thinking strange?
I think it’s fine for people to have different opinions, but if anything, it sounds like the way someone who works in the adult entertainment industry might think.
Rather than getting 80,000 yen for three hours, two hours for 80,000 yen is better.
No, wait—one hour for 80,000 yen would be even better.
What are you talking about? If there’s someone who can finish in five minutes, that’s even better, right? As soon as you enter the room, stimulate him there, have him finish in five minutes, and then leave separately—that would be ideal, right?
That’s how it comes across. Almost as if anything is fine as long as you can make him finish.
It also seems to be based on the idea that the sooner he finishes, the more enjoyable it must have been for him.
But what men want isn’t simply to finish. Once you understand that, I think your perspective may change a little.
For example, if you were an extremely popular celebrity, people might overlook even that, and there would probably be plenty of men who would still want to be with you. Considering that, I’m not sure you can say that any way of thinking is necessarily strange.
That said, I think how the other person feels will depend on how attractive the questioner is.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, and my username is Paper Airplane.
Even if we’re in the room for six or seven hours, the intimate part may only last an hour. With women I only meet occasionally, sometimes we’ll meet for just about an hour and a half.
It’s fine if it’s shorter when the experience feels good for the man, but girls like that are pretty rare.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who tends to lose out.
First of all, I’m aware that there are women like you, so I mainly make offers to Type B women.
It’s obvious that an arrangement won’t continue unless both people are comfortable, so during the first dinner date, we discuss what each of us is looking for.
As a result, things don’t always develop into an arrangement.
That’s why, when I occasionally make an offer to a Type C woman, I ask the club to arrange the meeting after making it clear in advance that I won’t be asking for an adult relationship (intimate) on the first day.
I’m the type who wants to build a genuine relationship with a woman, person to person. In other words, I’m not interested in a purely physical relationship. I wouldn’t enjoy it at all.
When I want to ask for a second round, it’s because I’ve been enjoying our conversation, my feelings have grown, and I’ve come to care about her and want to be intimate. It doesn’t start with my penis.
It may sound creepy, but I want to talk with women as much as possible. If the conversation is enjoyable, there are times when nothing physical happens at all.
That said, I’m sure there are men who want the kind of arrangement you’re looking for.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think every woman has her own preferences and her own compatibility with the man she’s seeing. It doesn’t have to be the same for everyone.
If sex lasting a long time is difficult for you, the man you’re with will probably notice. And if he doesn’t, I think you should simply tell him.
Other
Why ask something that varies from person to person?
I like soba, but I wouldn’t ask, “Does everyone like eel?” would I?
Have the kind of sex you enjoy with a partner you’re compatible with.
Marika