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Sep 9, 2021 08:21
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I tend to take a long time to finish, so sometimes things end without me climaxing even once—let alone going for a second round.
I enjoy watching a woman feel good.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I have a fairly strong sex drive too, so I ask for a second round. Early on in the relationship, I discuss the allowance for a second round and then decide whether to continue seeing each other. I never pressure anyone.
Naturally, the girls who continue seeing me tend to be the ones who are comfortable with a second round.
I’ve written about this in my column as well, but there was one girl who really enjoyed intimacy, and we got so carried away together that we managed three rounds in two hours. We’ve since gone our separate ways, but it’s a fond memory.
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
It’s me.
I’ve gone as many as five rounds, haha.
Sometimes it’s two or three, and even when it’s zero, we can still enjoy ourselves in other ways.
We don’t announce beforehand, “How many rounds shall we do today?”
Rather than focusing on what either of us wants, we decide together based on how we’re feeling, prioritizing our condition and mood—even though we’re both confident in our stamina.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
It’s not that he wants a second round—he’s just not that into you.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Once is enough for me. Sex is tiring because I have to be considerate, so I can’t get immersed enough to do it repeatedly.
That said, if she’s expressive and responds passionately, it’s so much fun that I end up continuing for hours.
Other
If there’s not going to be a second round, then at least make the first one last longer.
My papa (a male supporter) doesn’t need any performance enhancers for one round, but he takes them for me so he can go for a second.
The other papas (male supporters) I see are all men with strong stamina too, haha.
Marika
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu, and I’ll answer this one too.
> During the second round, it feels like none of the women are really into it.
That’s because you’re having a second round even when the woman isn’t enthusiastic.
In the end, you just want to do it, without considering how the other person feels, right?
Is the reason you want to go twice because you feel like you’d be wasting your money if you didn’t, since you already paid?
That’s basically a sex-industry mindset.
If men are going to treat women that way, then it’s understandable that women might think, “Would it be okay to ask for an additional fee for the second round?” There was a question like that recently.
With a dating club, I think it’s important to consider the other person’s feelings as well. So before going for a second round, you need to make sure that she actually wants to.
In your case, I don’t think you’ve reached that point yet. For now, try building a relationship through one-date encounters, and focus on getting closer first. Once you do, she may start thinking, “Maybe I’d be okay with a second round,” or even, “I’d like to have a second round.”
If all you want is H, I think you’d be more satisfied with the sex industry, and the other person would provide the appropriate service as well. You should understand that dating clubs involve a different kind of relationship.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a losing guy among the male members.
I feel like one or two out of every ten women ask for a second round.
The others may not show any reluctance, but I think they’re secretly uncomfortable with it, so I offer them a higher allowance in exchange for letting me have a second round.
The women who ask for a second round are the type who can keep climaxing for the entire three hours if they’re staying in the room that long.
I guess we’re just compatible.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
I’m a woman, but I’ll answer. I’m the type who wants to continue, but if the gentleman is worn out after once, I won’t pressure him.
Younger men can probably go two or three times, but I can’t really say since I haven’t received any offers from younger men.
If I’m satisfied, I don’t ask for any extra allowance.