I think every man registered here is beneath human dignity, so I never wish them happiness.
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I act friendly, say the things they seem to want to hear, and behave the way they like so I can get their money.
I wish their businesses would fail and that they’d have to learn the hard way.
There are questions here about falling for your papa (a male supporter) or wishing him happiness, but I just can’t believe it.
I’m curious what it’s like to open up to someone you met here and develop an intimate relationship, so please tell me.
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That’s incredible. Either your standards are extremely high, or you keep running into truly awful people.
Everyone I meet is wonderful. I think that may be because many of the people who offer to meet women in their 40s say they want to enjoy spending time together as people, not just have an adult relationship (intimate).
Also, I receive a fair number of offers, so if I feel we’re not a good match, I often end things without getting too involved.
I think forcing yourself to do this just for the money can warp your personality, too.
I believe the ideal arrangement is to receive an allowance from someone you’d genuinely want to date even without one.
I hope you find someone wonderful who makes you an offer.
Marika
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
Based on my own research, I get the impression that there are more men who fall below women’s expectations than genuinely good ones. Even when you receive an offer, the reality is that the man may be like that, leaving you with no choice but to work hard to keep things going with him.
So if I were a woman, I’d probably do papa-katsu thinking, “I’ll keep you slowly and quietly dependent on me in a lukewarm bath made of 100% lies.” Otherwise, I couldn’t maintain the papa-katsu mindset.
Here, male respondents can apparently only be people with no negative feedback, so I feel like many of them have no real sense of what it’s actually like.
From what I’ve heard, sadly, not a single papa-katsu woman was truly open with her papa. Not one. Zero.
Their only perspective is whether the arrangement is worth it compared with the allowance and what’s involved—and the most they can say is that a man who makes it worthwhile is a “good person.”
Even when I share a slightly excited story, people worry and ask, “Are you okay? Aren’t you being deceived?”
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I’m Aya, a female member.
You shouldn’t wish for your papa’s business to fail. It’s the opposite—the more successful his business is, the more enjoyable your relationship can be, including the allowance. I’m planning to receive ¥100 million once my papa’s business is firmly on track.
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Maezawa from the president’s office will answer as well.
Since your previous post—not a question—was hidden, are you pretending to be a woman and posting again this time?
Maybe you were mixing in what you wanted to say within the question, but I’ve removed that part.
In any case, I don’t want someone who wishes misfortune on others to be a member.
Well, I believe a man is pretending to be a woman and posting these, so I doubt he’s actually a member.
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I’m a male member—a loser of a man.
“Less than human.”
Well, in Japanese, that wording technically seems to include “human,” so I’m relieved.
That said, I always approach these relationships looking up to women.
I constantly remind myself:
“I’m only barely being given the time of day because I’m handing over an allowance.”
I think the questioner is more or less right. You haven’t said anything wrong.
After all, it’s an older man making advances toward a young woman. You could certainly call that something less than human.
That’s why I try to give a generous allowance. A man who’s less than human is being granted the company of a young woman, after all.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
If you view the man you’re seeing as less than human, he’ll treat you as less than human too.
A relationship that’s only superficial won’t last.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
I think it starts with recognizing the other person as a human being.
If you’re going to sleep with a man you dislike for money, wouldn’t working in the sex industry be more efficient?
I think the real question is why she chose a dating club instead of the sex industry.
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I’m Nana Ayase♡
I don’t think the person who asked this question will ever understand.
> “Are you just saying and acting the way she wants you to?”
You’re receiving an allowance, aren’t you? Of course you should say those things, right? If you’re getting paid, do you not do the job? You’re expected to do the work, aren’t you?
This isn’t a hostess club or the adult entertainment industry, so if you don’t like someone, you simply don’t have to say those things. But there won’t be a next time—you’ll just be blacklisted. Why go out of your way to spew abuse here? That way of thinking shows on your face, you know.
Please be careful.
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I’m Kami-hikōki, a male member.
I couldn’t help but laugh…
That kind of thinking is cute too, though…
Are you wishing for your own happiness?
I find myself wondering whether the person who posted this question, not just the men, might be thinking that way too.
> I’m curious what it means to open up to someone you meet here and become intimate with them, so please tell me.
They happily show you their passport, tickets, certificates, and so on, let you visit their home, pick you up at work, and introduce you to their friends.
Anyway, let’s look forward to the encounters still to come.
Your life is only just beginning.
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