If I ask for a little extra allowance after being asked to go for a second round, or ask for an additional payment after the first round, won’t I be seen as too money-focused?
I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Do you mean 50,000 yen per meeting? Whether it’s once or twice, isn’t it the same?
If you dislike it that much, maybe you should quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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I’m a losing guy among the male members.
I try to explain the terms of the arrangement in detail because I want to eliminate anything the woman might even slightly dislike.
There’s a huge difference between one round and two, isn’t there? I feel sorry for any woman who ends up with a papa (a male supporter) like me, with my high libido.
I don’t want arguments over money. I want to offer an allowance generous enough that there’s no room for refusal, then quickly get to know her outlook on life and so on.
I think of it as life support, not an allowance for an adult relationship (intimate).
And to the male members: You’re the real money monsters here.
She’s offering you the most important thing she has, so if you want a second round, isn’t it only natural to increase the allowance?
If you think of women as money monsters, you’re the King of Money Monsters yourself.
If you’re going to say, “I’m not a money monster!!”
then increase the allowance before she has to ask. I can’t understand why you’d try to go for a second round for free.
If the woman asks for a second round, I think free is fine. But if you’re the one asking, give her the money before making her say something embarrassing.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
If you bring it up yourself, they may think you’re too focused on money.
Wait for the man to make the offer.
If you’re not satisfied with it, you can simply end the arrangement and move on to the next one.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
To begin with, if he tells you upfront that he wants to go for a second round, there’s a good chance the encounter won’t be all that exciting.
Besides, if it was truly satisfying and fulfilling for her too, there wouldn’t be any need for a second round.
I think it’s best to refuse as soon as he brings it up.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
It’s not that I’m especially kind—I just hate playing games.
I prefer women to be straightforward instead of leaving me guessing or creating unnecessary tension. Saying, “I’ll satisfy your desires, so please do ○○ for me in return,” makes things much simpler.
Of course, I also want them to say no if there’s something they don’t want to do. In that case, I’ll just look for another woman who’s okay with it.
That said, I’m sure some men may find this kind of behavior from women unpleasant.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
You’re absolutely right.
I can’t help but see her as a money-hungry girl（笑）
That said,
in a dating club, that way of thinking is perfectly valid too（笑）
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