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Sep 8, 2021 10:34
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Ideally, I’d like things to naturally lead to a second round with a woman I’m compatible with…
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well.
> Ideally, I’d like things to naturally lead to a second round with a woman I click with…
Exactly.
Until you’ve gotten closer, don’t worry about a second round—focus all your attention on the first one.
Put everything you have into it, to the point where you’re completely spent.
Then, during the affectionate time after the first round in bed, you can probably tell from whether she reaches out and touches you.
Still, until you’ve grown closer, I think it’s best to assume there will basically be just one round.
When she wants another round, you’ll probably be able to sense it somehow.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
No one has ever told me this beforehand, but especially if you’re planning to go to a hotel on the first meeting, I think it’s better to mention it in advance.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
You’re answering your own question(笑)
It’s better to mention it beforehand. Ideally, just let things develop naturally.
It’s not about which is better—it’s simply a matter of choice.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Hikōki, a male member.
I think it’s better to avoid going for a second round.
Even if you mention it beforehand, it can come across as a pretty major negative and make her lose motivation.
Rather than that, I think you should approach things with more consideration for how she feels.
Women are happy when they can climax together with their partner—whether through penetration or not. Since that rarely happens, it’s especially appreciated.
Being able to bring her to climax gently, reliably, and in a short time—not with the roughness you see in porn—shows that you really understand her.
If you can establish that kind of compatibility, I think both of you can be satisfied, even if it includes what you’re hoping for—a second round. To make that happen, it’s important that she first feels you have good physical chemistry.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
I’d be happy to do it twice or even three times.
But if the woman is making an effort to have an adult relationship, try asking, “If you’re okay with it, I’d like to do it twice if possible.”
You probably shouldn’t say things like, “I want us to make love.”
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member who always seems to lose out.
I think clearly explaining the length and number of room visits when discussing the allowance is one of the most important manners for a papa (a male supporter).
For example, if you tell a woman, “The allowance for an adult relationship (intimate) is 70,000 yen,” and she agrees, only to find that the room stay lasts five hours and involves two or more rounds, she’ll be disappointed and think to herself, “For that, I should’ve asked for 100,000 yen…”
At that point, it would also be thoughtful to clearly let her know:
- The allowance will be handed over as soon as you enter the room.
- Protection will always be used.
Doing this smoothly will help the woman feel even more at ease.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I'm Kazu, a male member.
I think it's best to make that clear when discussing the allowance.