Tips Sep 7, 2021 11:32

The other day, I showered before an adult relationship (intimate), but I only washed my body. The man asked, “You’re not washing your hair?!”

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My hair is long, so it takes forever to dry... Is washing your hair considered standard?
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. I don’t think most people wash their hair. And then you’re expected to redo your makeup? Do men really want to see women without makeup? So many things about this are a mystery.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member and kind of a loser. After wearing her out until she’s completely passed out, I often wash my hair while she’s asleep. That way, I can go straight to bed when I get home.
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. Women who aren’t used to this kind of thing sometimes wash their hair when they take a shower. I imagine it’s because that’s what they normally do when showering at home. It’s also possible that this man has mostly dated women like that in the past. > Is washing your hair considered the norm? Usually, no. But washing your hair could be one way to come across as more inexperienced. (笑)
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m “Paper Airplane,” a male member. You wouldn’t wash your hair before an adult relationship, would you? If you’re going to wash it, you might say afterward, “Is it okay if I wash my hair?” But in that case, it’s basically just taking the place of your bath for the day. The only exception is with my long-term girlfriend. In winter, I’ll say, “I didn’t take a bath yesterday, so is it okay if I wash my hair and remove my body hair?” and do whatever I can.
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I’m Shingo Lee, a column writer. Men can be so cute, haha. The other day, I remembered telling a virgin girl, “Let’s take a shower,” before getting intimate—and she started washing her hair, haha.
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いっつ・みぃ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Other
It’s me. This is more a matter of personal values—or maybe daily habits^^; If you keep yourself clean regularly, there’s no need to wash your hair every time. Personally, I might lightly wet it or rinse it, but I’ve never done the whole serious routine of shampooing, conditioning, and blow-drying. An ideal woman once told me, “Don’t wash it, because the scent will linger”♪ >> After posting that answer, I reread the question and realized—wait, did a man ask you, “You don’t wash your hair?” Sorry, I didn’t read the question carefully m(_ _)m The man probably didn’t mean anything by it. I think he just didn’t know. If you don’t mind, it might be good to explain: “For women, unlike men, it’s like this…”
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Other than overnight stays, I’ve never seen a woman come out after washing her hair, haha.
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