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Sep 7, 2021 10:06
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🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m “Loser,” a male member of the Allowance Patrol.
4?
I’m terribly sorry, but please leave Universe. I’m begging you.
I feel sorry for the women. Imagine a woman you love or a female relative you care about having an adult relationship for 4.
That’s out of the question, isn’t it?
The going rate for adult relationships at Universe is 6 or more!!
■Update
Could my username be changed as follows?
Before: Loser
After: Universe’s going rate for allowances is 6+
When answering, please phrase it like this↓↓↓
The going rate for allowances at Universe for male members is 6 or more.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I think it depends on the female member, so why not give it a try? If she doesn’t seem to be getting many offers, she might be open to it.
There’s just one difficult but intriguing aspect of how Universe works: I imagine that around half of the women receive no offers after registering, and among them, there are probably some who would still be willing to date even for a low allowance. It’s a shame they don’t get the chance, so they’ll likely leave without ever receiving an offer and move on to apps.
Is that really okay? Should the club simply differentiate itself from apps, or should Universe also try to capture the app market? I can’t think of a good solution, which makes it a difficult issue.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I feel that women who agree to an allowance of 4 tend to be those who receive relatively few offers.
Once a woman gets a decent number of offers, she may feel that anything under 4 means she’s being undervalued.
For reference, this is how it feels to me:
3 → They’re clearly disappointed. (This was when I suggested it early on after joining.)
4 → They agree at the time, but when things continue, they may negotiate for an extra 1…
5 → They agree the vast majority of the time, and there’s usually no request for an increase later.
6 or more → This only happens when the woman suggests it, but in my case, it’s probably around 10–20%.
So lately, I’ve been suggesting 5 for pay-per-meeting arrangements more often.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
I’ve never had an experience where I offered 40,000 yen and the other person accepted, because I’ve never made that offer. So I don’t really know how it feels in practice.
That said, there have been times when a woman offered to lower the allowance and I agreed. Just going by my gut, that’s happened with about half of the women I’ve ended up seeing long-term. They’re all really kind. I guess they can tell, “This salaryman is probably trying too hard to look cool. He’s going to burn out eventually” (笑).
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
An allowance of ¥40,000? ... I think that’s fairly common outside the major cities. But I don’t think you’ll find many beautiful women in the cities who would accept that.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office will answer this one too.
You’re only changing the way you ask because whenever you ask about the going rate, people tell you there is no standard rate.
In the end, this is just another sneaky attempt to get someone to say the going allowance is four.
How cheap.
Seriously, how cheap.
Instead of worrying about that, think about what you can do to make a woman like you.
You’re way too obsessed with money and allowances.
What are you, a Kanegon?!
いっつ・みぃ
Male
Send a reverse offer to this responder
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
I’m It’s Me.
It’s interesting precisely because you can’t know the odds!
...Though that doesn’t really answer your question, so I’ll give you the most serious answer I can, lol.
The numbers vary depending on which male member makes the offer. They also change based on how he communicates and the situation, and, if you want to go further, on the woman’s physical and mental condition.
What’s interesting is that the allowance amount doesn’t necessarily correlate with how wealthy the man is, nor does it correlate much with the woman’s appearance or membership class. This is based on things I’ve heard directly from male and female members I trust. I haven’t asked everyone they’ve met, of course, but I think it reflects the general reality to some extent.
In my own experience, there’s no correlation between the allowance amount and how the woman responds or whether the arrangement continues.
There are certainly women who set a minimum allowance as a cutoff point.
Otherwise, even if the amount is somewhat below the going rate, whether she agrees or not probably depends on you, the person asking.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
How many men would be willing to agree to an allowance of 40,000 yen?
I’d say probably about the same proportion.
It depends on the woman, but for someone you’d like to continue seeing, I think it’s a good idea to add another 10,000 yen.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Based on the allowance amounts I’ve discussed when offering an adult relationship (intimate), I’d say roughly three out of ten women would accept four. That’s just my impression, since I’ve never actually suggested four myself.