Please help. I have a date with my papa tomorrow, but I’m not feeling it.
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I really love this papa, and up until last week I was thinking, “I can’t wait to see him—I want to have sex!” But since yesterday, I’ve felt kind of sluggish and just don’t feel in the mood.
Of course, I’m not physically ill.
My emotions often fluctuate, and I think I’ve slipped into one of those low moods this time. (It’s not that I dislike this papa, of course.)
Up until last week, my sex drive was overflowing—like Niagara Falls—but now it’s at zero, like the Sahara Desert.
There’s no way I can cancel tomorrow. This is probably the kind of mood swing women experience that men don’t understand.
Is there any way I can get myself in better shape and face tomorrow? Have any other women experienced this, or any men had this happen with a woman?
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Hmm?
It sounds like you’ve entered a low phase.
Until last week, you were so into your favorite papa (a male supporter) that you couldn’t wait to see him and have sex, but since yesterday, you’ve felt vaguely tired and just aren’t in the mood anymore. Of course, you’re not physically ill.
You’re wondering whether it’s okay to meet him tomorrow when you feel this way.
I think it might be best to tell him something like that.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Quickly tell that papa something like, “I can’t have sex because my period is irregular,” or come up with some other excuse! It would be cruel to wait until the date to tell a papa who showed up all worked up that you can’t do anything.
That way, he can take care of things beforehand and arrive in a state of post-release clarity.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
My moods don’t really swing that much, so I’m sorry, but I can’t fully relate… However, if you genuinely don’t feel up to it, I think it’s okay to get through it by making up an excuse, such as saying you’re feeling unwell or that you’ve been identified as a close contact of someone with COVID.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
It depends on what kind of relationship you’ve had so far and how long it’s been going on.
If he’s a papa you really care about, it probably won’t become awkward even if you don’t have an adult relationship, so talk it over with him first.
Either way, there may be cancellation issues with the hotel or restaurant, so make your decision as soon as possible!
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it’s best to tell your papa that you’re feeling down because of your mood swings—not because of anything he did—and let him decide how to proceed.
If he still wants to meet, I think you should make a reasonable effort to entertain your beloved papa and maintain the relationship.
If it were me, I’d meet her as long as I knew she needed the allowance. But if she said she’d rather prioritize her mood than receive the allowance, I’d accept the cancellation and spend time with another woman instead. That’s why I prefer women to let me know the day before rather than on the day itself.
Everyone has their own way of getting themselves back on track, so I hope you can find the best way to manage your own mood.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
Wouldn’t it be fine to just say you’re feeling unwell that morning…?
Men never have unexplained health issues like that, or days when they’re not in the mood, even once in their lives… (And even if they did, they’d make a full recovery as soon as they saw a woman…)
Women, on the other hand, frequently have headaches or feel physically or emotionally off—almost every month. It happens all the time, even with wives and daughters.
A woman’s delicate body, capable of becoming pregnant, is different from a man’s sturdier one, so I think people will understand when she suddenly feels unwell.
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