“All my friends-with-benefits and ex-boyfriends around my age were the type who didn’t perform oral sex.”
I was wondering the same thing—why is it that so many young men don’t do it? They want me to do it for them, but they don’t do it for me…
Also, for some reason, I feel like a lot of younger guys are boring in bed. 99% of the time, after doing it once, I find it so dull that I don’t feel like seeing them again. And yet, so many of them want to meet up again…
That’s why I prefer older guys who are skilled, a little kinky, and offer an allowance!
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
As an unpopular, decidedly un-dashing older guy, I’ve got to make younger women feel turned on. No—I want to get them really wet（笑）
I try my best with delicious meals, a beautiful room, the right atmosphere, and gentle affection, but it’s still not enough.
It’s going down on her.
There’s nothing like seeing her expression while I’m doing it, either.
Anyone who says they like a papa like that is an angel.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Not every older man is skilled or capable of kinky sex.
Among the older men who enjoy sex and have honed their techniques over the years, there are some who are both skilled and kinky.
If you’re currently seeing someone like that, consider him a rare find and cherish the relationship.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
It’s true that women often tell me things like, “I’ve never had someone go down on me this much before.”
When you’re young, all you can think about is getting it in and finishing. But as you get older, I think you gradually become like Make-Otoko mentioned: “Honestly, even if I don’t ejaculate, I’m perfectly happy with zero orgasms as long as my partner enjoys herself.”
I think it’s probably because you become less confident in your body as you age, so you try to make up for it in other ways—or because you gain the emotional room to be more considerate of someone else.
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I’m a male member and a total loser.
Sex is all about making the woman happy, right?
Unless you’re extremely confident in your equipment and technique, I honestly can’t imagine having sex without cunnilingus...
Even if I don’t climax myself, I’m perfectly fine with not finishing at all as long as my partner enjoys herself—and since I have plenty of girls on standby,
“There, I didn’t have to finish! Yay ❤”
I even find myself thinking that sometimes.
When you look at it that way, sexual compatibility may really just come down to whether you can make your partner feel good.
Oh, and by the way, I’m terrible at sex. I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I’m sorry (even though nobody asked).
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As they get older and more experienced, everyone does it.
See? Older men have their own appeal, too.
Young guys are usually only thinking about getting themselves off during sex.
Marika
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here with an answer as well.
> I was wondering the same thing—why are there so many young men who don’t do it?
Rather than just young men, I feel like it’s young people in general.
Maybe that’s simply the direction society is heading in?
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I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
If anything, men these days are pretty proactive, including with cunnilingus. A lot of the young, attractive guys I know who are popular do it too. Apparently, worldwide, the number of men who have attentive sex has been on the rise since around 2000. Viva gender equality.
Of course, some people genuinely dislike cunnilingus, so it’s not 100%, but honestly, maybe it’s because they’re being treated as a convenient hole?
If someone doesn’t make you feel valued during sex, yet you still want to see them again, I honestly think that’s a sign you’re being treated as a convenient hole.
In other words, they’re having rough sex, inviting you out just as casually, and thinking, “It’s a bonus if she agrees to sex.” They don’t care if things end there because they never saw it as a meaningful relationship to begin with.
If you were someone they genuinely wanted, they wouldn’t invite you out so carelessly.
Since they can’t make up for not giving you pleasure, they’d desperately try to bridge that gap by making a real effort to pursue you.
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