Are there any things you like being told during intimate moments? Any words that really get you in the mood?
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I’d love to hear from both men and women.
To anyone who just goes at it intensely without saying anything suggestive, I want to shout: “Words are an aphrodisiac!”
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I get excited when a woman’s reactions are good. That said, I lose interest if they feel forced.
As for what she says, most people only say things like “That feels good,” so hearing more expressive reactions really turns me on.
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He’s not big at all, and it’s not like his technique feels especially good, but somehow he manages to make me squirt a lot every time. Since he seems to want me to tell him he’s the best I’ve ever had, I humor him and say it, lol.
Marika
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I’m column writer Shingo Lee (Shingori).
I’m late to the conversation, even though it’s a topic I’d probably enjoy!
★ Things men are happy to hear
Men are creatures who are always wondering, “What if I’m worse than other guys?”
A lot of men would be pleased to hear things like:
“Ah, it’s big.”
“That feels good deep inside.”
★ Things women are happy to hear
No matter how experienced someone is, being intimate and naked with someone can still feel embarrassing.
Complimenting specific features—such as saying, “You have a beautiful body/eyes/skin/chest”—can help. (The important thing is to compliment the feature itself, not the person as a whole.)
And when she’s getting carried away, saying “You’re cute” will probably help her feel at ease and let herself go.
I hope this is helpful.
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
During the act, try saying things like:
Amazing.
I love it.
Ah, that feels so good there.
More.
Amazing—this is crazy.
I’m coming, I’m coming.
Those are some of Fuu’s favorite things to hear（笑）. If you make it clear that you’re really getting into it, your papa will probably find it easier to talk too.
Here are some things Fuu whispers in his ear（笑）:
You’ve gotten even cuter.
Your body is beautiful.
This is crazy—you’re turning me on.
Is this the spot that feels good?
Does it hurt? Are you okay?
You’re so tight.
You’re really squeezing.
I can’t hold back anymore.
Can I let go?
But I try not to imitate the kind of pushy, persistent questions you hear in adult videos, like “This feels good, doesn’t it?” or “So this is what you like?”—I’m careful not to annoy him. Depending on the person, I may not say much at all. And early in the relationship, before we’ve built trust, I feel things out and avoid talking too much in his ear during the act.
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
Honestly, I’d love to engage in the kind of intense dirty talk you hear from Company Matsuo, the “Emperor of Amateur Porn,” but I’m afraid it would be off-putting, so I chicken out. This is about as far as I go:
“Here? Here? Which feels better?”
“…I don’t know… All of it.”
“Huh? What did you say?” ← That’s about the extent of my dirty talk.
“All of it~!!”
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I’m Meg, a female member.
Exactly!
Words really do matter.
We tell each other that all the time.
If I wrote what we say to each other here, it’d be so sweet and lovey-dovey that I’d be embarrassed…
I love my papa ☆
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer as well.
It sounds like you’re someone who wants to be teased verbally. Some women may prefer to stay focused, so if you’d like that kind of verbal teasing, it might be a good idea to subtly work it into the conversation.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I get turned on when a woman tells me it feels good, or when she lets out moans even though she’s trying to hold them back.
Dirty talk works well with women who have a bit of an M side, but I don’t think it suits everyone.
I’ll say things like “You’re cute” or “You have big breasts” when that’s genuinely what I think, though…
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
I think it’s best to only see people you click with—not just in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but in general…
Compatibility matters more than words.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
Interesting question（笑）
I think it really depends on the person. Some respond to things like “I like you” or “You’re cute,” while others react well when you give them feedback, like “That feels good.” Some even respond to comments like, “Wow, things are really getting intense—you can hear that, right?”
Dirty talk can get pretty awkward if the other person doesn’t respond, so you have to read the situation carefully. If they start shivering when you say things like, “Oh, so you like this?” or “Then I’ll keep doing this for you all night,” I take that as a good sign. Rather than focusing on specific phrases, I think it’s important to gradually explore what works while watching their reactions. It’s a form of communication, after all. The words are just a result of that.
I once saw an old adult video where the woman, feeling so overwhelmed that she cried out, “I’m going to die,” and the man kept teasing her while saying, “No one’s ever died from feeling too good.” She kept climaxing while laughing, and it was so ridiculous and funny that I wanted to try it myself—but conversations like that rarely come up（笑）
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I’m Nana Ayase☆
> Things like “That feels good” or “You’re moving…”
I guess?
Do you tell them, “Words are an aphrodisiac”?
Do you say anything during an adult relationship (intimate)?
I think it’s something the two of you create together.
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