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Could someone explain the difference between papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and enjo-kosai?

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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here, answering your question as well. You’re getting too hung up on the wording. Does it really matter which one it is? When you compare dating a boyfriend who buys you gifts with compensated dating, you might end up thinking… Maybe they’re actually the same thing? I don’t think it’s helpful to get too caught up in labels.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. When people hear “compensated dating,” many probably picture relationships with women under 18. Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is a place for freely dating women aged 18 and over, with an allowance involved.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. The meaning of words changes over time, and people may define them differently, so I don’t think there’s an answer everyone will agree on. To me, the difference is the depth of the relationship. Here’s how I see it: Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) You might go out for meals or dates, and there may also be an adult relationship (intimate). You may stay in touch outside of making arrangements to meet. Enjo kōsai There’s an adult relationship (intimate), and you might eat together as well. Communication is limited to arranging the meeting.
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マックさん
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名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Mack, a male member. Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is like the older sister, while compensated sex is like the younger sister.
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