I want to masturbate to photos of women I’m seeing.
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I’m a man in my 50s, and I sometimes get an overwhelming urge to masturbate to sexy photos of a woman I really like, such as pictures of her in lingerie. But so far, not a single woman has ever agreed to send me any, haha.
Has anyone else had a similar experience?
What do you think I could do to make a woman happy to take and send me photos like that?
It’s fine if her face isn’t shown—just photos of her body would be enough. Thinking about her gets me excited even from just photos of her body, haha.
I’m Shingo Lee (Shingori), a columnist.
As someone who collects intimate videos and keeps a large number of them on a hard drive that isn’t connected to the internet, I understand where you’re coming from.
However, whether or not to allow intimate videos is a matter of personal views on security—almost like religion. Everyone weighs the risks and benefits differently, so you can’t force someone into it.
If I honestly say, “You’re beautiful, so let me film you,” and she says no, I usually don’t push the issue. But if I really want to masturbate to that particular girl, I’ll ask her during the act, “Film only me,” and hand her my smartphone to record it.
The footage ends up looking unappealing because I’m the one in it, but since the girl’s voice is recorded loudly, I can later close my eyes, focus only on the sound, and pleasure myself.
Keep this method between us.
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I’m Mack, a male member.
I actually know a papa-katsu woman who does exactly that. It seems she started during COVID because they couldn’t meet. She sends photos in poses the man requests and receives an allowance equivalent to an adult date. Apparently, the man was the one who suggested it.
Isn’t the person asking the question a premature ejaculator? If he is, it’s over in no time, so he seems to enjoy himself more by using the photos and taking care of himself at his own pace.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Haha（笑）
It sounds like you’re having fun with your club activities, so why not?
I don’t have any experience myself, but if you want women to happily take pictures for you, you probably need to become the kind of man they’d actually want to send them to.
As for the specifics, you’ll have to think that through for yourself.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I let my favorite papa (a male supporter) take some photos of me, but his company was raided, and the Tokyo District Public Prosecutors Office’s Special Investigation Department took the smartphone containing those photos. Just thinking that the investigators may have seen my pictures makes my heart race.
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I’m Nana Ayase☆
I’m not an AV actress or a sex worker, so I probably shouldn’t, but…
If we go on several dates and build trust,
I’d let you take photos of me too.
Videos are okay as well—if there’s trust between us.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’ve had women send me photos without me asking. Some women will even send non-sexy pictures, so there are women like that.
I’ve also had women let me take their pictures after I asked if I could.
I think it depends on the woman, but asking her to take a picture and send it to you seems more difficult than asking if you can take one of her.
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I’m columnist Fuu.
You sound like a middle schooler going through puberty（笑）
“I want to masturbate to my favorite girl!”
Well, it’s good to see you’re feeling energetic.
How about giving her some money the next time you see her and asking if she’d send you photos of herself in a swimsuit or lingerie via LINE—no face necessary? Depending on how you negotiate, some girls might be okay with it.
But if there’s no face（笑）wouldn’t masturbating to a face-mosaicked AV be basically the same thing?? lol
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I’m in Seattle.
Be a good papa (a male supporter) and build an ongoing relationship based on trust first. Then, once you’ve established that, you can tactfully ask if she’d be open to something paid.
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Before his long business trip, I let him take some pictures of me.
He came back without cheating (probably).
Whether you’re willing to let someone take pictures depends on the woman’s preferences and the trust between you.
As Flag Maker said, I’m a pervert too, haha.
Marika
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer too.
Hmm… There really are all kinds of preferences out there.
In that case, why not offer 10,000 yen per photo and either send the money in advance or hand it over directly?
Still, I really don’t understand the thinking behind it…
By the way, would it not work for you to take the photos yourself instead of having them sent to you?
You could buy a proper DSLR, attend various photography workshops, and learn the basics of photography first. Then you could ask the person you’re seeing to let you take their photos.
That would probably be the simplest approach, but I suppose that wouldn’t serve your purpose.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
You disgusting pervert!
An embarrassing old pervert like you should stand naked in the corner of that room!
If that’s what you want, stay there naked and masturbate.
No, no—face this way. I’ll watch you from here.
…If that’s the kind of thing you’re after, I feel like there might be women willing to go along with it.
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What about a private photo session with an adult video actress? I’ve been to one before, and getting nude photos is pretty easy.
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