About a man who applies ointment to hold back ejaculation and repeatedly stops just before climax.

I’m Hikouki, a male member. Since, honestly, neither men nor women need more than three minutes to reach climax, the only solutions I can think of are for you to find a way to finish quickly and completely—perhaps by developing your own technique—or to captivate your partner and bring them to climax early. If things remain half-hearted, it’ll turn into an endless ordeal: the woman will only suffer, the man won’t be satisfied either, and the same thing will happen every time you meet. In any case, it seems the only way forward is to improve the quality.

I’m Dai, a male member. I had no idea there were creams you can apply to delay ejaculation. That’s surprising… If he wants to keep going for that long, I don’t think simply begging him would make him stop. Do you mean that going on for so long is causing you pain? Sometimes, if you keep having sex while holding back, it can become painful because you aren’t lubricated enough inside—or because you start to dry out. In that case, using lubricant internally is also a well-known option.

I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer as well. You could say, “I’m in too much pain to continue by the hour.” That might work. He’d have to go home without finishing that day, so he might stop applying the cream next time. However, it’s more likely that he’d simply move on to another woman. So I think it may be better to end things with him. Alternatively, you could improve your technique and learn how to make him climax quickly even when he’s using the cream. You could discreetly place your hand there during sex, squeeze with your hand, and increase the stimulation so he finishes sooner. I’m not sure whether that’s actually possible, but there are websites that describe techniques like that, so it might be worth learning from a woman who can really do it.