I’m 25 and live alone with my father, since we’re a single-parent household. My parent found a host club business card. I went there with a friend for a free trial, and it was discovered.
The same thing happened four years ago. Back then, I said I had only gone once, but this time I panicked and made up an excuse, saying I had taken it away from my friend. Now my father suspects me and says, “I won’t allow you to associate with friends who would go to a host club during the pandemic. I’m cutting you off.”
It’s true that I went, but I didn’t enjoy it at all and will never go again. However, he doesn’t believe me and is extremely worried, even asking whether I might have been injected with methamphetamine.
I can understand why he would worry if our positions were reversed, so I intend to keep denying it. What should I say to reassure him?
I’ll answer as Maezawa from the president’s office.
> I did go, but it wasn’t fun at all, and I’m never going again.
So you tried telling that kind of lie, but they didn’t believe you, right?
> I intend to keep hiding it, but what should I say to them?
Are you asking how to tell your parents that you want to keep going to host clubs, even though you’ve been lying to them?
If so, since you’ve been found out this time, perhaps it’s fate—or a sign that you shouldn’t continue. I think you should give up for now and lie low.
Going to host clubs can be expensive, so I think you should first save tens of millions of yen yourself and only enjoy it within what you’ve saved. I don’t think you should go into debt for it.
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I’m Mack, a male member.
You should deal with papa-katsu supporters as if you’re trying to fool them. They’re all pretty much the same kind of creature.
Honestly, they’re easy to manipulate. Deep down, they completely trust their PJs—the girls they support.
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I’m Nana Ayase♡
Why don’t you quit the host club? After the way you’ve been behaving, don’t you think your parents are starting to have doubts too?
They’re worried because they care about you. You’ve been saying some pretty strange things, like claiming someone’s been injecting you with meth. But seriously, why did you have that business card? I figured it was because you were planning to go back.
Just throw that thing away. Don’t ever go back. Once you get absorbed in that fake world, you won’t be able to get out.
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If you lie badly, I think it’ll only make them more suspicious and send their imagination into overdrive.
If you’re not going again, you’ll just have to say so.
Akari
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You went this time as a free trial (fact) → you didn’t enjoy it at all, so you won’t go again (your feelings) → your father saw a host club business card (fact) → you intend to keep hiding it (hmm? Hide what, exactly?)
I don’t understand. You went once but didn’t enjoy it, so you’re not going again, right? And your father saw the business card, so he’s basically figured out you went, hasn’t he?
Even if you lie, he doesn’t believe you, so there’s not much you can do.
From now on, all you can do is lie low until he believes that you really won’t go again.
If you’re going to be kicked out of the house at this point, why not just tell him plainly that you went once for free but didn’t enjoy it, so you won’t be going again?
That said, with COVID cases rising this much, going to a host club is seriously reckless of you.
Marika
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Seattle.
Meth is quite a leap, isn’t it?
You’re 25, so leave your parents and their wild assumptions behind, get your own place, and live your life.
If you absolutely have to keep living with them, just keep a poker face no matter what. Since you already realize that hosts are a waste of money, I think you’ll be fine.
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