I’m a male member. Things had been going smoothly for several months, but I happened to see on the s...

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I’m a male member. Things had been going smoothly for several months, but I happened to see on the site that she’d gone in for new photos, and suddenly I lost interest. It’s not like I’m possessive—I just feel like I’ve had enough. Do many women go in for new photos because they feel the same way and are ready to move on?

前澤 · Answer

Maezawa from the President’s Office here, answering as well.

> I happened to see on the site that she’d gone back for another photo shoot, and it suddenly turned me off. It’s not like I’m possessive or anything.

You may think you’re not possessive, but you sound like the very embodiment of possessiveness. You also seem like the kind of person who can’t stand it unless you’re in control.

Something like, “She went back for another shoot without even asking me? I’m not dating someone like that anymore,” right?

That’s pretty narrow-minded.

> Do a lot of women go back for another shoot because they’ve decided they’re done with the relationship too?

I’ve never met a woman like that.

The club asked them to come back for another shoot, and they agree because refusing outright would simply be rude.

Not long ago, you were saying that a woman who didn’t go back for another shoot looked completely different from her photos. So you want the woman you’re seeing to do it too, don’t you?

And yet, trying to distinguish between the two situations is nothing but pure ego.

Also, you say you “happened to see her on the site,” but if you’re dating her, then the one being disrespectful is you for combing through the entire site.

In the end, you were looking for other women, happened to find the woman you’re seeing, and got angry about it.

You’re betraying her, so I can’t help wondering how you can put your own behavior aside and criticize her.

Instead of blaming her, if you’ve simply gotten bored, you should just be honest and say so.

綾瀬なな · Answer

I’m Nana Ayase ♡

You told me to come back for another photo shoot, so I did, didn’t I?

Besides, I couldn’t make a living on just the allowance you were giving me. You’re checking out other girls’ profiles too, so what’s the difference?

If you want to keep her interested, meet her once a week. Don’t give up from the start just because she’s popular and say, “I’ll pass.”

Fuu · Answer

I’m columnist Fuu.

It’s possible she wants to switch to a different papa, but if things are going well between you, I suspect it’s not simply that she’s had enough. She may have a specific amount of money she wants or needs, and your current allowance and terms aren’t enough, so she may still want an additional papa.

If you can give her the amount she needs, she’ll probably stop having her profile photos retaken.

If you can’t, perhaps you should accept her having multiple papas.

Why not stop focusing on just one woman and date several? I recommend it. Spreading your feelings around will make you less bothered by it. Why not find fulfillment in different ways with several people?

紙ひこうき · Answer

I’m a male member, and my username is Paper Airplane.

If you were considering taking a break or leaving because you no longer needed it or felt sufficiently fulfilled, you probably wouldn’t go in for new photos.

西中 恵 · Answer

I’m Meg, a female member.

I had a specific reason for going in to have my photos retaken.

I don’t want to cut ties with my papa, so I’ll ask to be hidden from that particular person.

I’m not thinking that I’ve had enough at all.

伊達◎ゆめ · Answer

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.

If she were satisfied with her current arrangement, I don’t think she would go in for another photo shoot. Still, I’m sure she had various reasons for doing so.

Well, there’s no need to worry about it. Try to take a broad-minded view.

Many of the women you meet through the club are quite impressive, and even if they accept an offer, things may naturally not continue if they compare it with their current arrangement.

If you like your current partner, and you’re better overall than the new male members she may meet, even if you don’t know who they are yet, I don’t think you have anything to worry about.

茉莉花 · Answer

If you weren’t interested in other women, wouldn’t you have left the site unopened?  
You were browsing because you thought you might make an offer if you found someone appealing, weren’t you?

Marika

カズ · Answer

I’m Kazu, a male member.

I think many women only agree to come in for new photos because the club contacted them and asked them to.

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