The more intense it is—or the more I climax—the more likely I am to fall asleep.
A lot of people get secretly filmed, so I’m scared that might be happening to me too.
How do you all protect yourselves?
I also get sleepy after being intimate with my boyfriend, so I don’t feel like I’m being given sleeping pills, but I’ve heard it happens to some people.
What do you think?
Please advise.
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
One of the most comforting moments is when they peacefully fall asleep in my arms afterward. It’s nice to doze off together, gently stroke their head, and simply watch them sleep—that post-intimacy afterglow is wonderful.
Good papas (male supporters) do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) through dating clubs because they want to minimize risks. I don’t think they would deliberately put themselves at risk of being sued, for example.
When the connection is less established, such as through matching apps or app-based papa-katsu, the level of danger tends to be higher. You should be especially careful and protect yourself when meeting someone for the first time.
To guard against hidden cameras, check the room—especially around the bed—for anything suspicious. I’ve seen documentaries on TV about people being secretly filmed by tiny cameras cleverly hidden in things like bags with small holes, glasses, ballpoint pens, and phone chargers, so please be careful.
Be intimate with a papa from a trusted Universe-affiliated club（笑）
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I’m Dai, a male member.
If someone were going to secretly film you, they’d do it during the encounter, so I don’t think you need to worry too much about being filmed while you’re asleep.
If you’re still concerned, put your underwear and the hotel loungewear back on after the encounter before going to sleep.
If someone were going to drug you with sleeping pills, they’d probably do it at the restaurant before the encounter.
I don’t see what they’d gain by giving you sleeping pills during the encounter.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this one too.
Since you’re vulnerable when you’re asleep, you might end up sleeping lightly so you can wake up at the slightest thing—but that doesn’t sound enjoyable either.
So I think the best approach is to:
- Develop better judgment when it comes to men.
- Only do it with men you can trust.
That seems like the way to go.
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I’m a male member, “Paper Airplane.”
We normally fall asleep afterward.
Sometimes, we both end up sleeping for anywhere from two or three minutes to nearly two hours.
As for whether he’s secretly filming you, couldn’t you tell from whether everything is still as it was afterward, and whether the atmosphere feels like you’re both still basking in the afterglow when you wake up?
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I know what you mean. You get incredibly sleepy, right?
I actually like that dreamy, drowsy feeling.
I feel like you’d probably be okay with a kind papa (a male supporter) who lets you sleep peacefully afterward.
If you’re worried, try sleeping in a position where you’d notice if he moved away—like staying cuddled up close or holding hands, as long as he doesn’t mind.
Also, before anything happens, I think it’s a good idea to check your phone’s location settings.
Marika
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