The men I’m intimate with tell me things like, “You’re a real expert,” “You’re better than a professional,” “Did you used to work at a place like that?” and “It feels like I’m having sex without a condom.” I think I got better because a papa (a male supporter) I used to date taught me.
I always thought that, when it comes to blowjobs, it’s obviously better if they feel good. But men always say things like, “I guess the person you dated before taught you,” so I worry that I don’t come across as innocent and that it might actually be counterproductive. Should I deliberately make myself worse at it?
I’m columnist Fuu.
Maybe you’ll understand what your papas really think if you try not doing oral next time.
If they say, “You’re not going to do it for me?” I’d take that as a sign you were good at it.
Papas tend to overpraise you, so whether they genuinely enjoyed it depends on the person. You might want to read the situation carefully yourself.
Personally, I’m not a fan of fast-paced oral with lots of saliva. But some papas do like it that way—it really depends on the person.
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I’m Akai from Universe Club, and I’d like to share my thoughts as a staff member.
Some gentlemen may be pleased that you’re good at oral sex, so I don’t think there’s any need to deliberately act less skilled.
That said, there are probably some gentlemen who may wonder why you’re so good at it. In this situation, how you answer that question is likely to be important.
Generally speaking, it’s probably best not to talk about the other gentlemen you’ve dated.
As for the compliment, I think it would be safest to simply accept it graciously and say something like, “I watched some videos and used them as a reference.”
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I’ll answer as Maezawa from the CEO’s office.
I think it’s better to be good at giving blowjobs.
But then I find myself wondering, “Why is she so good at it?”
It’s not something you’d naturally become good at, after all, so I think men end up saying things like, “I wonder if there’s some reason she’s so good…”
So I think the real issue is how to answer when they ask why.
Probably the best response would be something like:
“I watched some videos and practiced on my own. I’m happy you liked it.”
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Of course it’s better to be good at it, but there are some men who are just exhausting.
Being young can be tough.
You could try saying, “I haven’t really done this much—is this okay?” Then, if he tells you you’re good, act delighted and say, “Maybe I’m a genius!”
But keeping up that kind of act gets tiring too, so if he says something weird, just ask, “Then should we stop?” (lol)
You might even be so good that he’ll beg you to keep going.
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’d definitely prefer someone who’s good at it. I can understand saying goodbye because someone isn’t good, but I can’t imagine saying goodbye because they are.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
> Wouldn’t that backfire because she wouldn’t seem innocent?
Yes, exactly.
For men who prefer girls who aren’t familiar with dating clubs—even if they don’t provide oral sex—it would have the opposite effect.
What matters more is being able to get aroused, climax properly, and having good chemistry.
So even being inexperienced—or not doing it or not being able to—would probably be fine.
But at this point, I suppose it’s already too late...
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