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Aug 3, 2021 20:52
5 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Depending on the person, I specifically exclude certain schools and workplaces for female members, so please leave those out.
For the first meeting, I meet at a restaurant. Since we’ll be discussing the allowance, a private or semi-private room is required.
From the second meeting onward, I adjust to the other person. If she’s concerned about being seen, we continue meeting at the restaurant and use a private room. If she doesn’t mind being seen, we meet at the station and don’t insist on a private room for dinner—basically, I accommodate her preferences.
Other
You probably don’t like not knowing who might see you.
Choose somewhere women don’t usually go and where your friends are less likely to spot you.
Akari
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
For first dates, I feel like we usually go to slightly upscale restaurants with private rooms or spacious seating. Once we get to know each other better, we often decide on the restaurant together.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’ve never come across a girl who ruled out every downtown entertainment district, but if she really does, I think you should ask her what location she prefers when making the offer.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’ll answer as Maezawa from the CEO’s office.
For the first meeting, I think it’s a good idea to reserve a private room at a restaurant or somewhere similar.
You could also arrange to meet inside the restaurant.
Something like:
“I’ve made a reservation under [name], so please wait for me inside.”
How does that sound?