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Jul 31, 2021 18:04
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
I think it also depends on whether the man had been head over heels for you during your previous relationship.
If he was, he’d probably be happy to hear from you, even if he wondered, “After dumping me, why now?”
And if you treat him kindly, I feel like he might fall for you all over again.
I think you should start by reaching out to him.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
If you want to see him again, I think it’s okay to tell him so. Whether you actually get to meet again is up to him, though.
I’m dreaming that I’ll have a message from him on LINE by tomorrow or so, haha. M-maybe…? My hopes are high!
Other
I don’t really understand breaking up with someone yourself when you still can’t forget them, but like Kazu says, I think it depends on how you end things and how you plan to stay in touch from here on out.
Marika
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date ◎ Yume, a male member.
> Do you think I’ll come across as an overly demanding woman?
I do, haha.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it depends on the reason you give when ending things and what you say when you reach out to ask to meet again.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I wouldn’t consider her particularly presumptuous, but I might wonder whether she suddenly needs the money or has broken things off with another man she was seeing.
Other
I’m Ayase Nana ♡
You can’t get in touch with him anymore, right?
He only reaches out when it suits him, asking you to give him attention…
What is he, an elementary school kid? How would you feel if this were work-related?
Even though I turned him down, he came back saying, “I hope we can work together again.”
Well, you can’t exactly accept that, right?