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https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/7848 Thank you to everyone who replied! I occasionally tweak the wording in my profile a little to keep it near the top of the search results, but I’m getting absolutely no offers!! I’m amazed that some people receive as many as 100—crying The only person who ever sent me an offer after clicking “You’re lovely” said something like, “You’re much cuter in person. You looked tense in your photos, so your face looked stiff and unfriendly. I only offered because it didn’t seem like you were getting any other offers.” Crying Would it be possible to consult with the staff via LINE about not getting many offers and ask to have my photos retaken, even though it hasn’t been six months since I registered? Do you have any other tips for getting more offers?
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Maezawa from the president’s office here. > Would it be possible to ask the staff via LINE about not receiving many offers and request a reshoot, even though it hasn’t been six months since I registered? There’s nothing wrong with asking, but whether they’ll agree to a reshoot depends on various factors—such as the staff member’s judgment (whether they stick to the rule and ask you to wait six months, or make an exception) and how busy the branch is. Even if they want to help, they may still have to tell you to wait six months if they’re too busy. That said, branches outside Tokyo usually aren’t that busy, so it will probably come down to whether the staff member handling your request is willing to make an exception. So, it’s basically a matter of luck. If you do decide to ask, you could say something like: “I haven’t been getting any offers, and I’ve even been rewriting my profile comments every week, but it hasn’t helped. The only man who has sent me an offer told me, ‘You’re much cuter in person. You looked tense in your photos, and your face came across as stiff and unapproachable.’ So I’d like to do anything I can to improve my chances. I know you’re busy, but would it be possible to request a reshoot?” There’s no harm in asking, even if they might say no.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. As I wrote in my answer to this question: https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/7844 Personally, I don’t have a very good impression of women who frequently update their comments. It makes me wonder whether they’re unable to maintain any relationship, or whether they’re living solely off papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I know this sounds harsh, but not having read the similar question from just four posts earlier, and asking whether they could request a reshoot even though they have the same terms as the other women, aren’t things that leave a particularly favorable impression either. A woman’s little sly tricks can be cute, but I only feel that way about women who regularly go down on me enthusiastically.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. For now, focus on the people who sent you an offer after saying “That sounds great.” While you’re doing that, more offers may come your way too. I think “That sounds great” is a very well-designed feature that benefits both sides. It may be more valuable than receiving 100 one-sided offers. Once someone sends you an offer, you’ve already made one exchange. If you accept it, that connection becomes one and a half exchanges.
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