Do men generally assume that women don't get many offers?
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After re-registering, a male client I was dating advised me, saying, “Wouldn’t you get more offers if you changed to C?” Another man who made me an offer and met me asked, “Have you only met one person (me) so far?”
Thankfully, I’ve been getting offers every day since re-registering, and I’ve met nearly 20 men so far. It makes me wonder whether I look like someone who wouldn’t get many offers. Do men really assume that only exceptionally beautiful women receive offers from multiple men?
Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Basically, I don’t get many offers, but in your case, maybe your profile still says something like “I don’t receive many offers” in the club comments, and they simply forgot to remove it even after you started getting offers?
Of course, since the person in question can’t see this, there’s no way to confirm.
That may be why a man who was thinking, “If she doesn’t get many offers, I’ll make one,” kindly explains how to attract offers—or brings it up by asking whether he’s the only one meeting her.
So, while wondering, “What is the club doing?” you might as well enjoy the date.
I don’t think you come across as a woman who doesn’t receive any offers.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
As Fuu said, the average number of offers in the first month is 3.2. So I think it was reasonable to assume that someone re-registering and not being a “C” wouldn’t receive that many offers.
However, I’ve come to realize again that attractive women actually do receive quite a few offers.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
When men advise you, even though you didn’t ask, that switching to Type C will get you more offers, or ask whether they’re the only man you’ve met so far, I think it’s because, frankly, they can’t find anything else to talk about with you.
You said you’ve been getting offers every day since re-registering, so take advantage of it and find a man you’re truly compatible with!
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
That’s great. Apparently, 50% of members don’t receive any offers, while those who do tend to receive multiple offers. According to a club column from 2018, women who received offers within their first month got an average of 3.2 offers. Offers do tend to be concentrated among certain people.
If people are telling you to go with C, that means you’re not a C—you’re attracting an incredible number of offers, more than 20.
It’s inspiring to see what’s possible!
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I wonder why??
Maybe they assume that because someone has re-registered, they won’t get that many offers??
I think most people who receive offers every day—or more than 30 offers a month—even after re-registering would understand.
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Oh, come on… lol
“Am I the only one you’re seeing?”
I think that’s just the faint hope of men who tend to say, “I want to be the only one.”
“Do I really seem unpopular?
I get plenty of offers, you know?”
I don’t think it’s something to get all worked up or defensive about…
Everyone’s being way too condescending.
Let’s all keep things peaceful and happy.
Akari
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Probably. I mean, this is just a guess.
I’m guessing the woman asking the question isn’t Black, but she isn’t Platinum either—in all likelihood, she’s Gold.
In other words, she’s probably what’s known as “Lucky Gold,” meaning one of the higher-ranking women in the Gold tier.
There are quite a lot of female members in the Gold tier, so from a man’s perspective, you’d expect the number of offers per woman to be relatively low.
Based on my experience, Gold women also seem to receive fewer offers than Platinum or Black women. That’s just my personal impression, though.
So I think that’s why men say things like that.
This is only my guess. Whether you believe it or not is up to you.
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