A question for the gentlemen:
How closely do you examine a woman’s body during intimacy?
Things like skin breakouts, a sagging stomach, or little bumps on the back or hips.
Of course, I do my best to take care of my skin every day, but it’s impossible to have skin with absolutely no spots or darkened areas.
I’d appreciate hearing your opinions.
I’m Dai, a male member.
Well, I’d be lying if I said I didn’t look.
You do wonder what someone’s really like until you see them undressed, don’t you…?
I do pay fairly close attention to a woman’s bust.
As for her waist, any sagging around the stomach, or blemishes and darkened areas, they’re not an issue as long as they aren’t particularly noticeable.
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I’m Shingo Lee, a columnist.
I don’t make a point of checking, but I personally like girls with crow’s feet, so I do find myself actively noticing the area around their eyes.
Other than that, even when I’m not looking for anything in particular, I tend to notice dark spots. Maybe it’s because I regularly have mine removed, but they catch my attention.
I don’t specifically check during intimacy, so it doesn’t bother me. However, when we’re in the rear-entry position, heat rash near the buttocks can be visible. That area is difficult for anyone to care for, though, so I see it as something we’re both in the same boat about.
Surprisingly, stomachs don’t really bother me. When you bend your body, even someone with an average figure can develop folds, and I think that’s just how bodies are.
Occasionally, if someone is especially full-figured, the area around her genitals may be so fleshy that I’m taken aback by the “distance” to the entrance.
I’ve gone on about various things, but if I find someone attractive and come to like her personality, acne, smile lines, or even a faint bit of facial hair won’t bother me.
Don’t worry about it—just focus on enjoying yourselves.
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I’m Nana Ayase♡
I do my best to keep myself from getting flabby, but given my age, I think it’s only natural.
I do sit-ups and squats every day so my stomach doesn’t get soft. I have a fairly large bottom and a slim waist, so my concern is that I can’t pull off jeans as stylishly as I’d like.
The things that catch my attention are conditions that seem medical, such as atopic dermatitis or body odor, but I have my anal area washed thoroughly as well, so it hardly bothers me.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I don’t specifically check, but as long as they look natural when we’re being intimate, it’s fine. I like smooth skin, but I think it depends on their body type and condition, too. As long as it’s not obviously unhealthy, I’m okay with it.
As someone who loves a defined waist, I do feel a little sad when someone who never used to have a soft stomach suddenly develops one or loses their curves.
That said, my current favorites make me so satisfied with their level of closeness, thoughtfulness, and technique that it more than makes up for any tummy softness. They’ve got me not wanting to let them go, so I don’t think it would lead to a breakup.
I’ll do my best, too, so no one leaves me because my stomach has gotten soft! I keep the room dark so they can’t see me naked (lol).
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
I didn’t check any of the options listed in the question.
What matters to me is the mood, how compatible we are in terms of how the woman feels, and how pleasurable it is after penetration.
Even though it’s my own body, there are partners I become aroused with once I’m inside even if I was only semi-erect, and others who make me lose my erection despite being fully hard. There’s really nothing I can do about that.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t actively inspect people as such, so I’ll just talk about things that catch my eye and concern me.
Severe eczema is a concern. I’m also a little put off by extremely dry skin to the point where it’s peeling, or by breakouts. If there’s one or two dry patches about the size of a 500-yen coin, or just one or two blemishes, I think, “That happens.” But if they cover a large area or there are a lot of them, it does concern me.
As for sagging, anything resembling cellulite is quite a turnoff.
I understand that freckles and darkened areas are just part of being human, but if there’s a large, noticeable area—say, much bigger than a coin—it does catch my attention.
I’m okay with someone being slightly on the curvy side, but many women tend to carry more weight in their lower bodies, and if their thighs are considerably larger than mine, it’s a turnoff.
I don’t think there’s much you can do about it, but if the areolas are particularly dark when things get intimate, I do lose interest in that moment.
I hope this was helpful.
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Maezawa from the president’s office here.
I think it may be easier to understand if you consider how closely you check a man yourself.
Since he’s naked, of course you’ll probably see everything. But I don’t think it’s really about “checking”; it’s more like simply wanting to see him naked.
For example, if there were a lot of rash-like spots, you might be concerned. But if there were only a few, you’d probably think, “Well, everyone has a little of that,” and move on.
If there were none at all, you’d probably think he had very clean skin.
I do think it’s best to take proper care of yourself, but achieving perfection is difficult. So even if you groom yourself properly, I think it’s best not to worry about anything that remains.
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