I’m exhausted from getting offers only from men whose profiles say—based on the staff’s leading questions during my interview (sorry)—that I like sex and have certain preferences, and who bring toys with them from the very first meeting.

I’m Dai, a male member. Some women also write that they enjoy sex. However, judging from their wording, it’s usually just enough to make me think they probably talked about it during their interview. I consider myself an ordinary guy too, so I wouldn’t avoid making an offer just because a woman says she enjoys sex or mentions having certain preferences.

I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer this as well. > Does it say that the other women also like sex? If someone doesn’t like sex, it isn’t mentioned at all. When a staff member asks, “Do you like sex?” and she answers, “Yes,” they’ll probably ask how much she likes it. I think her answer to that is what gets written. So depending on the woman, it may not be mentioned at all, while others may simply have something like “I like it normally” written there. From what you’ve described, I think it may have been included because you answered in a way that made it sound like you liked toys. The solution is simple. Send the staff something on LINE along these lines: “I’m getting tired of receiving offers from men who bring toys from the very first meeting. I only want to use toys with someone I’ve gotten close to, and having them used on me during the first meeting isn’t exciting—it’s scary. But the men who contact me seem to assume that I have an extremely high sex drive and absolutely love intimacy, and it’s honestly making me uncomfortable. Could you please do something about this?” I think the staff would revise their comment. That said, they might write something like: “She doesn’t want to use toys from the first meeting. Please wait until you’ve gotten closer.” So there’s a possibility they may be used from around the second meeting onward. But after the second meeting, you could probably manage the relationship smoothly by saying something like: “Maybe once we’re a little closer. Pleease?”

I’m columnist Fuu. Rather than posting in the Q&A box, I think you should contact the club and ask them to revise the “toys” section of your profile. That said, there are male members who specifically want to make offers to women who say they enjoy H, so keep in mind that deleting all such comments could lead to fewer offers. Please discuss it with the club.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Rather than complaining to the staff, try reaching out to explain that you’re having trouble. I think they’ll probably add your preferences and personality to your profile.