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Jul 25, 2021 19:31
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They also tend to be so self-centered in bed, and it feels painful because they’re so rough....
I wouldn’t meet them at all without an allowance, and once I have a stable number of papas and enough financial breathing room, the first thing I want to do is cut ties with them...
I put up with everything for the money, but after we part ways, I head straight to a café bathroom and thoroughly wash around and inside my mouth, lol.
Is this a common thing in dating clubs?
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I’m Papico, a female member.
For someone with implants, there’s a good chance it could be peri-implantitis. When that happens, the gums may swell, bleed, or discharge pus. It’s caused by bacteria entering the area and triggering inflammation, and blood and pus can apparently contribute to bad breath.
It may also be that they aren’t brushing properly, allowing plaque to build up on their teeth and cause bad breath.
If you come across someone like that, please encourage them to visit a dentist regularly. ⸜( ・ᴗ・ )⸝
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Simply stating your opinion gets hidden, so people are getting more and more crafty about phrasing it like a question.
> Is this one of those common things at a dating club?
I don’t hear about this happening very often, so in most cases, I don’t think it goes that far.
So, no—
I really don’t think this is a common dating-club experience.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Questioner, you’re really something. Even though it’s for the money, you’re still seeing a papa (a male supporter) who smells bad and fingers you roughly. You must be very patient.
I once had a “vaginal odor incident.” I touched it a little, and when my hand started to smell, I stopped and immediately washed it off with soap in the hotel shower. I was scared the smell might not come out.
Wait a minute! You’re saying the questioner gets fingered roughly at the hotel, is kissed despite his terrible breath, and yet doesn’t wash up in the hotel shower right away—you just put up with it until you reach a café after parting ways? You’re a strange one. Do you just change clothes while still smelling?
Ah—or is this just something you made up because you wanted to bash someone?
What kind of stress are you venting by trashing him? Is this payback for having a bad experience with a dinner-only (no intimacy) papa-katsu arrangement you found through an app?
So, if you’re only washing around the mouth and inside the mouth, does that mean it was just kissing and oral sex? Are you a call girl?
Sorry if I’m imagining things and got it wrong.
Other
Bad breath and other odors aren’t determined by age.
The papas who are close to 60 all take great care of themselves—their lingering scent is even alluring.
Let’s make sure we take care of ourselves, too.
Akari
Other
That’s definitely not something everyone experiences.
My papa (a male supporter) smells amazing, so I love kissing him, and I’m always snuggled in his arms, breathing in his scent, haha.
If anything, implants require very thorough maintenance afterward, don’t they? If his breath smells that bad, his oral hygiene must be pretty poor. His implants probably won’t last very long either.
Marika
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
Do dental implants really smell? Maybe it’s not the teeth but a dirty tongue?
All of my papas over 50 have smelled perfectly fine. Once you get to the hotel, brushing your teeth comes first, right?
Also, as Dai-sama says, apparently there are women—young and mature alike—whose mouths and private areas smell. Don’t assume you’re clean. Put a finger down there and smell it yourself.
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Universe member
I’m Date Yume, a male member.
Haha!
Even if it’s for the money, you shouldn’t push yourself too hard(笑)
Let’s take things at a comfortable pace.
If the smell is really unbearable, I think it would be okay to tell him. It can’t be enjoyable to continue seeing someone when you’re at your limit, and the man probably has no idea you feel that way… If he found out, I’m sure he’d be disappointed.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
When your oral hygiene isn’t good, your breath can get pretty bad, right?
I don’t want to end up needing implants either, so I now go to the dentist regularly and have a dental hygienist check me.
I think one reason so many people lost teeth when we were younger is that preventive dentistry wasn’t as widely practiced as it is today.
(These days, there are all kinds of options, such as fluoride treatments, xylitol, and various types of toothbrushes, floss, and tuft brushes.)
That said, women can sometimes have an odor from both their mouths and down there, too.
I don’t think it’s necessarily because they’re papas at a dating club.
Let’s both try to be mindful of it.