I’m a male member in my 30s. I read a blog post by a woman who does papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) saying that she had never once felt a thrill on a date with a papa (a male supporter). Yet the context was that she got butterflies over a handsome provider at a women’s escort service—basically, that handsome men are always the answer.
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https://ameblo.jp/yukina-thankyou/entry-12685121756.html
I realize that, since this is a relationship involving financial compensation, I can’t exactly expect a PJ to be on edge with excitement all the time. But I had dreamed that, once we became closer, there might be moments when something about the gap would unexpectedly make her feel a thrill. If this is really how PJs feel, I even find myself thinking it might be better to take the risk and have an affair.
I want to know the truth. To all the female members: honestly, are there ever moments when you feel a thrill around your papa??
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer as well.
Even if you say you want to know the truth, it differs from person to person, so I think there can be multiple truths.
In the end, all that matters is meeting the kind of woman you have in mind, so I think you should simply look for someone like that.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I feel like I can only keep seeing papas who give me butterflies.
Whenever we say goodbye, the papas I see take off their masks and kiss me. It makes me genuinely happy, and I still feel all warm and fuzzy after they’ve gone home. It’s strange, considering we’re more than 20 years apart in age.
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I get totally weak in the knees when someone is really kind to me ♡
I’m Ayase Nana ♡
Just because you looked it up online and read that you won’t get nervous doesn’t mean you should take it at face value.
You should show her that you’re kind and dependable, too.
Being handsome isn’t everything.
Whether you’re a soft, cuddly papa or a shorter papa, be kind, okay?
There are people here who fall easily, too ♡
Let’s all look around and see what we can find♪
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I do think women who prefer young, handsome guys like the woman in the blog may not be a great fit for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
That said, even if a woman says she’s into older men, I assume she simply likes mature, sophisticated gentlemen—not necessarily someone with my looks.
There aren’t many women who genuinely want a romantic relationship with their papa (a male supporter), and if that were the case, wouldn’t it be troublesome for the person asking as well?
Women who do papa-katsu are basically using it as a way to earn money.
When I watch the introduction videos of women from these clubs, almost all of them talk about how important it is for a man to look clean and well-groomed.
It’s clear that they’re thinking about the minimum requirements for an adult relationship (intimate), rather than expecting their papa to be handsome.
Still, I’ve seen women mention in surveys that there are occasionally handsome, sophisticated gentlemen.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Well, that’s just how it is.
I wouldn’t call it feeling all “smitten” or “butterflies in my stomach,” but I do feel like I’m being treated well, allowance included.
Isn’t that good enough?
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