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Jul 24, 2021 15:31
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Just imagine this: Male members make offers because they find something appealing about you and are willing to pay to meet you. You’re competing with around 7,000 women nationwide—or roughly 3,000 in the Kanto area—so you need to stand out enough to be chosen.
Even if you don’t fill out your entire profile, attractive looks can bring in multiple offers. On the other hand, even if you complete every section, some women simply won’t receive offers if men don’t find them appealing. It’s unfortunate, but that’s the reality.
That said, you can work on becoming someone men choose. If you still want to receive offers, I think it’s worth making the effort.
You may find these helpful on the Universe site:
Learn how to improve your self-branding skills for papa-katsu by studying Cinderella, the women’s column, and women ranked highly for offers!
https://universe-club.jp/female/offer_top10/
What kind of women are chosen by male members of Universe Club?
https://universe-club.jp/female/6628/
I hope these help, and that you’ll give it your best shot.
I hope your appeal comes across well and the offers start coming in.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here, answering your question as well.
There are various reasons why someone may not receive any offers, and sometimes it has nothing to do with the person themselves.
① The photos didn’t do you justice.
If the staff happened to take photos that didn’t bring out your best features, you may not receive offers, since men often make their decisions based on photos.
In this case, getting new photos taken may lead to offers.
② Your staff evaluation may be too high.
From a male member’s perspective, you may look like a Gold-class woman, but because the staff meet you in person, they may rate you as Platinum if you have a great personality. (They may even unconsciously see your appearance as Platinum-level because of that positive impression.)
When this happens, men may think, “Why is she Platinum? I’d make an offer if she were Gold,” which can sometimes result in zero offers.
After more than a month has passed, you could ask the staff something like, “I haven’t received any offers. What should I do?” In some cases, they may lower your rating to Gold so that you start receiving offers.
③ You may not stand out based on appearance alone, but have a great personality.
Your profile comments probably describe your positive qualities in detail, but if men don’t respond to them, you still won’t receive offers.
In this case, all you can really do is wait for a man who values personality to trust the comments and make an offer.
④ In rare cases, someone whose native language is Japanese may be registered as a foreigner because one of their parents is foreign.
They may end up being registered in the international division, meaning that only a small number of Japanese men interested in foreigners will view their profile, while most men won’t see it at all.
If they aren’t registered with a regular branch, they may not receive any offers.
There may be other factors as well, but these are a few possibilities that came to mind.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Each month, when comparing only new memberships, more than eight times as many women join as men.
Considering that continuing male members already have partners, I think the women who receive offers must be truly exceptional.
Popularity is bound to be uneven in any world.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
From a member’s perspective, I can’t say for sure whether there are women who genuinely make an effort but still don’t receive any offers. That said, I do think some people simply won’t get offers no matter how hard they try.
I believe I heard that around 40% of the 7,000 members don’t receive a single offer over a six-month period, which would mean 2,800 women get zero offers for six months. Out of 2,800 people, there are bound to be some who decide to make an effort.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Unfortunately, I think there are some women who don’t receive any offers no matter what they do.
One possible reason is that the staff member who interviewed her didn’t have a good impression of her.
In that case, getting new photos taken may lead to more offers—if it changes the staff’s impression of her, that is.
Sometimes, the comments on the new photos even say things like, “Is this a different person?” as a compliment.