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Jul 24, 2021 13:43
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m columnist Fuu.
It depends on the man’s preferences, but I think it’s all about balance. Still, I wouldn’t say that wetter is always better.
In my case, there was a girl who would use a lot of saliva and give me very fast oral sex, but I actually find it more pleasurable when it isn’t excessively wet. The fast pace was painful too—I prefer slow, lingering oral sex (lol).
During penetration, I feel sorry for the woman if she isn’t sufficiently aroused and lubricated, since it must be painful. Fuu doesn’t feel satisfied unless the woman is enjoying herself too, so I do want her to be reasonably wet. I always keep lubricant on hand.
That said, even if she’s extremely wet, it’s still fine if she’s enjoying it and tightens up, or if she tightens up when she’s close to climax—or if she’s naturally tight to begin with. For me, the sensation of tightness is important. I like it from behind, so especially in that position, how tight she feels really affects my satisfaction.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer as well.
> I thought it felt better for men when things were more slippery, but is that not the case?
It’s good that you’re paying close attention to men. Your guess is correct.
It probably feels tighter when there isn’t as much lubrication.
However, that would mean only the man is enjoying it, so it doesn’t necessarily lead to satisfaction. I think many men also want their partner to enjoy herself.
So I don’t think you need to worry about it too much. And if things become painful, you shouldn’t force yourself to endure it.
Other
Some men even pause to wipe themselves because I get too wet along the way (lol).
Marika
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会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
As you say, I’m sure there are cases where that isn’t the case.
However, in those situations, they’re often rather loose, whereas with someone who’s tight, the slippery feeling can be pleasurable too.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I’m the type who wants us both to enjoy ourselves.
So even if I’m feeling good, I wouldn’t really enjoy it if the woman isn’t aroused and is feeling sore from the friction.
Seeing that she’s enjoying herself can also heighten my excitement.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m date◎yume, a male member.
It’s true that when you’re very wet, there’s less friction.
But if it hurts, you should say so instead of forcing yourself to endure it. There may be ways to improve things, such as moving more slowly.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Being completely dry can hurt, but it’s also true that when things are very wet, there’s less friction and it doesn’t feel quite as good.