Tips
Jul 20, 2021 23:14
4 answers
Other
I’ve gone on trips with my papa a few times, usually around the third date.
I think you’re much more likely to be treated affectionately if you tell him you’d like to travel together, rather than approaching it as a transactional relationship.
I’m jealous that you have such flexible availability. I’d love to travel more with my papa too.
Marika
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
The earliest was probably our third meeting. She was surprised when I took a day trip to Hokkaido, haha. If we both want to go to the same place, the number of times we’ve met doesn’t matter. It all depends on the timing.
P.S.
> Mac
Staying overnight on your very first meeting… Impressive, as always.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
In the past, one papa took me on a trip to Kyoto three months into our relationship, and another took me abroad after we’d been seeing each other for eight months.
I was also planning to go to Las Vegas with a papa who lives in the U.S. and started seeing me just before COVID, but sadly, the trip was canceled because of the pandemic. He made it up to me soon afterward, though, by taking me to a traditional inn in Kanazawa.
Once you get close, conversations like “It’d be nice to travel together” or “Should we go somewhere?” tend to come up naturally, so I think it really depends on how well you click.
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Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
We went on a trip a little over three months into our relationship. We decided to go somewhere the woman wanted to visit and have me take her there. She told me she didn’t need an allowance since I was taking her somewhere she wanted to go, but I still gave her one as a matter of principle.
I don’t think it’s presumptuous for a woman to ask her papa (a male supporter) to take her on a trip. If you feel that it might be presumptuous, I think you can reflect that in the allowance you offer.