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Jul 16, 2021 09:00
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Since we started wearing masks because of COVID, about half of the men who’ve approached me have had nose hair sticking out.
Seeing nose hair on a first date is honestly a deal-breaker. To be honest, I’d hate it even if we’d been seeing each other for a long time.
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m columnist Fuu.
Wasn’t it just one or two by chance? Before COVID, I happened to see around 10 papas at a club event, and they were all incredibly polished. It really made me think, “Wow, I seriously need to put more effort into my grooming.” Not a single one of them had visible nose hair. Maybe it was just a coincidence.
As Flag-san mentioned, men’s hair grows quickly, so before a date I check my nose hair, eyebrows, sideburns, gray hairs, and pubic hair in the mirror before heading out.
If it really bothers you, I suppose breaking things off is an option. But if the other terms are good and you think you could continue, why not take a pair of nose-hair scissors with you and offer to trim it for him, even if it’s a long shot?
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Here’s the thing: men’s nose hair grows longer and faster than women’s to begin with. So assuming, from a woman’s perspective, that “your nose hair probably won’t show” is a mistake.
Don’t underestimate men’s nose hair. LOL
I’ve been struggling with how quickly mine has been growing lately. In fact, just the other day, I was asking a younger female coworker about it, and she said, “No, it doesn’t really grow that much in the first place. LOL”
Maybe wearing masks is helping it grow, or maybe it’s some kind of defense mechanism against pollen and the like, but my nose hair has been growing ridiculously fast lately.
These days, I’m trimming it almost every day.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the president’s office here as well.
Sorry.
Men of the *Otoko Oidon* and *Sakigake!! Otokojuku* generations don’t worry about their appearance.
That’s what being a real man is all about.
Still, nobody wants to be disliked by women, so I think it’s fine to point it out. He’s a real man, after all—he should be able to take it.
If you find it hard to say directly, maybe give him something like Brazilian nose-hair wax as a gift? He might get the hint.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Your wife?
No, surely not, right?? She’s just extremely strict about nose hair.
She even gave me a dedicated pair of scissors…
Apparently, if any is sticking out, she doesn’t even want to walk beside me.
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Other
I’m not a fan of people with dirty belly buttons. Just put some baby oil in your belly button after a bath, wait a few minutes, and gently swab it with a cotton swab. It’s amazing—your belly button will be sparkling clean.
Guys, give it a try.
Marika
Oh, this isn’t relevant to first dates for Type B, though.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Even among the men I meet through work, I occasionally come across someone with a nose hair sticking out. I imagine many people simply don’t care.
It bothers you, but you can’t point it out, so it leaves you feeling awkward, doesn’t it?